FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Do you enjoy being on here?
Do you enjoy being on here?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I go through phases with it...I'm currently in a can't be arsed phase so have just been lurking round the forums, more out of habit than anything whilst watching TV. I'm sure it'll come back around to actively looking for fun again soon enough |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I only really chat to one of my friends on here. I do have something else in mind for here, but if it doesnt happen, it doesnt, and I may well leave. Im not meeting, which is my choice but the site for me seemed to have changed before I made that decision not to meet others. Quiet and not much happening |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I love it but then I am relatively new and so have not yet experienced any down sides (as yet).
I love meeting people, making new friends and the sex is good too.
I am a social butterfly lol.
How long does this feeling last for? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Recently I've been loitering in the forums quite a lot. I find them amusing. Lots of random nonsense. It's just a giggle. But I'm still meeting and browsing. It's just I've taken my foot off the accelerator a bit. Although I seem to be more active as a result. Who knew? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?"
Far from it .
We meet very regularly , and rarely the same people more than once .
We won't just shag anyone either , a quantity of quality we like to put it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Well of course I enjoy being on here, no fecker makes me log on. Admittedly I use the site differently to how I did 9 years ago, i.e. I no longer send preemptive messages, and tend to trundle round the forums posting inane drivel. There doesn't seem to be much call for 53 yr old bisexual smokers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"
We're all seeking and getting attention (good or bad) with posts.
My question is really about stating that the site doesn't provide what one seeks, remaining to experience more of the same and then stating it again. Habit or addiction? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?"
Yes probably.
"It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read."
Although fun, the contentious ones run the risk of Ban Club  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
We love it, we get to meet fun sexy couples from here which suits our style of play. We like to look around (quite fussy) chat to people, then social, then play, so using a site like Fab works much better for us, than a club environment where you only have the choice of the people who are there on that particular night etc. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often."
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone...... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......"
Including the 'criticise' one? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts"
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I do have some laughs on here i must admit but i've given up making any effort to find someone to treat to a night of steamy passionate sex and I'm usually just laughing at my own jokes really  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......
Including the 'criticise' one?"
Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I love it. Had a break from it for personal reasons for a year and within a day of being back on it many of the guys I used to talk to were there asking how I was. Chatting to some new faces on here too.
Met a new friend since I've been back on which could turn out to be really good fun. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others."
I've said before, person above posts are like the forum equivalent of crisps and chocolate.
...except for kiss/fuck/pass threads, those are just pretty crap now. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......
Including the 'criticise' one?
Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants."
Oh heaven forbid such things go on on a swinging site? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Well of course I enjoy being on here, no fecker makes me log on. Admittedly I use the site differently to how I did 9 years ago, i.e. I no longer send preemptive messages, and tend to trundle round the forums posting inane drivel. There doesn't seem to be much call for 53 yr old bisexual smokers "
Hey, my twin! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......
Including the 'criticise' one?
Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants.
Oh heaven forbid such things go on on a swinging site?"
I was just stating that they weren't popular with everyone as not everyone wants to have sex with everyone on the forum....you seem to have enjoyed taking my point and working it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others."
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
That are popular with everyone - also note the fact that I vary them often.
I would argue that they are popular with those seeking approval/adoration/etc.....not everyone......
Including the 'criticise' one?
Yes....including that one.....no one ever says anything honest unless they have no desire to get into the poster above's pants."
Oh I'd say there are a few regulars who are honest regardless of whether the poster they are responding to is on their F.I.L.T.H* list.
*Forumite I'd Love To Have |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"The One Above" threads are fair enough and everyone on here can post in precisely what the fuck they want to post in.
BUT...I don't post in them and never have done, I see those threads as:
"Can someone please convince me that I'm still at least half fuckable".
Not my bag at all. You just know BEFORE you even open those threads exactly who's going to be in them.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I just use fab cos of habit now and see whats going on in the forums and post and reply there and yes to pass the time as well and to use the chat room too. I have given up on meets and searching for what I am looing for here as fate I believe plais a huge part to in finding the match lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads."
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues."
Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.
Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it?"
Pretty much, hence the thread. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues."
But do you genuinely think that repetitive postings of the "say something about the person above, so I'll get at least one person tell me that I'm nice" or "I'm not really here for sex, but look at my cock pictures" threads are the best way to achieve that? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.
Doesn't seem to be working for you though, does it?
Pretty much, hence the thread."
I can only surmise you enjoy repetitive and futile tasks then. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.
But do you genuinely think that repetitive postings of the "say something about the person above, so I'll get at least one person tell me that I'm nice" or "I'm not really here for sex, but look at my cock pictures" threads are the best way to achieve that? "
Looking at this purely from a self-marketing perspective, if it's working, Great!
If not, and from the comments it doesn't look like it, why not stop trying so hard and just be you? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
A bit of both for me...I'm in a bit of a can't be arsed phase at the minute (and I've got a new non Fab FB who's occupying my time and mind quite a lot at the moment), but I've also got a meet tonight with someone I've been chatting to for a while so I'm still meeting...the fora have always been one of the best things about Fab for me and I've made some awesome friends (and lumbered myself with the Wyrd One ), but I'm currently not posting anywhere near as much as I have in the past, so it is kinda habit to just nip on and see what's happening  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"OP, you post something similar every couple of months but you are still here.
Is it habit or addiction that keeps you here?
It's attention seeking methinks, like the 'person above' posts
I think nasty comments like these are you wanting attention.
I love "person above" posts and with the amount of people posting on them so do many others.
That's because there are many of you that seek validation through those kind of threads.
Or simply to get ourselves out there and get a better knowledge of who might fancy us, it's certainly easier than fumbling in the dark looking for clues.
But do you genuinely think that repetitive postings of the "say something about the person above, so I'll get at least one person tell me that I'm nice" or "I'm not really here for sex, but look at my cock pictures" threads are the best way to achieve that? "
Clearly you misunderstand where I'm coming from. I'm not so needy as to be happy with some kind of reassurance from ANYONE as to my level of attractiveness, my more obvious efforts to market myself are done so in the intention of hopefully finding someone I'd like to meet, and realistically can do so.
As for the 'be myself', you may also notice, if you read some of the more unusual threads I start, that I do that constantly, though with mixed degrees of success, certainly less so than my more direct 'person above' threads. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts? I could start a thread right now on something like "bareback: the root of all evil" or "should we rename this place fabcheaters?" and it would get to 175 because someone (probably me) would get in an argument and run with it.
If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts?...If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics" "
I suggested nothing of 'more posts = better thread', rather I don't like it when I'm enjoying a particular discussion as I find it entertaining and interesting, then it suddenly dries up as few people have anything to add to it.
"it would get to 175 because someone (probably me) would get in an argument and run with it."
You're not the only one. This is why I generally don't engage people in silly arguments on here, especially those who specifically seek me out in order to start one - no matter how well I argue, how much I understand the subject matter and how carefully I word my inputs, they will NEVER acknowledge that they've been outwitted by a stranger online, such is the nature of the internet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Good and bad moments, I'd leave if I hated it.
Online friends who I've been speaking to for years. Each to their own it suits me."
I like your tiger |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts?...If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics"
I suggested nothing of 'more posts = better thread', rather I don't like it when I'm enjoying a particular discussion as I find it entertaining and interesting, then it suddenly dries up as few people have anything to add to it.
"
A lot of your threads sometimes seem quite self-reflective though, so it may be that people don't feel they do have anything to add to it. And it's the nature of forums really, there's an element of luck involved in the right people reading at the right time to see a post to get an interesting discussion going. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Good and bad moments, I'd leave if I hated it.
Online friends who I've been speaking to for years. Each to their own it suits me.
I like your tiger "
Thanks  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Is the measure of the success of a thread just the number of posts?...If you post a thread and a few people reply with good points worth thinking about, I'd call that more successful than 175 posts of "pass" "kiss" "lovely pics"
I suggested nothing of 'more posts = better thread', rather I don't like it when I'm enjoying a particular discussion as I find it entertaining and interesting, then it suddenly dries up as few people have anything to add to it.
A lot of your threads sometimes seem quite self-reflective though, so it may be that people don't feel they do have anything to add to it."
Well yes they are, I think I'm at that stage of my life where I realise that I'm getting older and naturally feel rather reflective about it. I doubt I'm the only one who's ever felt this way though, so self interested though many of my threads are in that respect, it's not as though it's a niche thing that few could add something constructive toward. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Who honestly gives a flying fuck if a thread gets to 175 or not.
I started one yesterday that would have done it. And i rarely ever start threads.
It got to like 20 odd within minutes before it got shut.
Zero fucks given if it got to 175 or not. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!"
You really could do with sharing that pearl of wisdom around, it seems that too many people don't actually realise that. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read.
Although fun, the contentious ones run the risk of Ban Club "
I've never had a ban. Does that mean I'm very very good?
Contentious posts are like a car crash - you just got to look even if you don't want to! Pinch of salt and all that. This isn't really serious, is it! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!
I do!
If it's a thread about flashing some flesh, I'm always In there with my pale Northern skin "
I know, you dirty sod!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No-one has to read a thread or post on it!
I do!
If it's a thread about flashing some flesh, I'm always In there with my pale Northern skin "
I know, you dirty sod!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I have phases where this site works and provides everything I'm looking for, fun laughs and frolics, and phases where it doesn't provide what im looking for, during those phases I use my energies elsewhere.
At the moment I'm less enthusiastic about here moving towards using my energy elsewhere.... Chances are I'll be back though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On the whole I enjoy the forums.
I don't find them quite as intimidating as I used to.
I try my very best to offer a reasoned _iew if a thread is a bit argumentative and try my hardest not to get ranty or rude. I'll also admit to failing miserably and not being ranty or angry sometimes. Apologies to all concerned.
From a personal experience the forums have opened up conversation with people I'd probably not have connected with by searching.
All in all I like them, although I tend to stay in the lounge now, it's where the fun seems to be and a lot less chance of seeing anything that makes me ranty man.
I hope my threads amuse others.
SW3. Some will, some won't, so what......
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
You're not the only one. This is why I generally don't engage people in silly arguments on here, especially those who specifically seek me out in order to start one - no matter how well I argue, how much I understand the subject matter and how carefully I word my inputs, they will NEVER acknowledge that they've been outwitted by a stranger online, such is the nature of the internet."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I never come on here looking, I find if you have expectations that's when you get disappointed, I just come on to chat, if I do get talking to anyone and a meet is arranged that's a bonus but I have gone months without meeting simply because it just hasn't happened, sometimes I have spoken to people on and off for weeks/months and never met that's just how it goes
I just like to chat, plus it passes the time between calls at work when I'm bored
Anything else I'd a bonus |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?"
I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.
Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?
I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.
Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc... "
And you perving them! Perve  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?
I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.
Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...
And you perving them! Perve "
That coming from a fellow perve means a lot  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?
I see it a bit like that too. I'm not really actively looking for meets anymore. If they happen then great but it's not the the be all and end all of me being here.
Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...
And you perving them! Perve
That coming from a fellow perve means a lot "
I'm a massive perverse pervette |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?"
More for chatting as its very difficult for a single guy to meet couples or ladies. I have alot more luck being out and about tbh |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Really enjoying the chat and the forums. There's some great women on here and I just like being around them as they perv on my arse etc...
And you perving them! Perve
That coming from a fellow perve means a lot
I'm a massive perverse pervette "
There's perves on here? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I no longer enjoy it here. It doesnt hold the same buzz anymore . Perhaps i have just got old and past it . I make it difficult for myself by mot meeting .
Silly me 
Aww I still loves ya "
Thanks Doll that was really unexpected.. xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This site works well for me. I've met lots of great people (play and non play) and they're people I wouldn't have met otherwise. Forums are funny as and even the more contentious posts are good to read."
The more contentious ones are my favourites, they are probably what keep me coming back. Along with the silly one. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Yes, otherwise I'd leave.
I'm not meeting at the moment because I'm addressing a crisis of confidence but I still enjoy being here.
I can't understand those that keep coming back day after day, doing the same thing over and over, not getting what they want (and usually think they deserve) and getting ever more bitter and angry.
If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got. There's no point blaming everyone else for wanting the wrong thing, or the system for failing, or, in fact, anything but yourself.
If the place makes you unhappy, angry or bitter, where's the fun? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
For those not getting what they want, it's usually blatantly obvious to everyone else why that is.
Some people ask for advice and some of those listen. The rest carry on in the belief that they're fabulous, they've no need to change anything, and it's the rest of the world that has it wrong.
Some know, deep down, what the problem is but can't face it.
It takes all sorts. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere. "
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Regarding meets I've chatted with some nice people on here, had some interest too unfortunately from rather far away.
The forums are a good company for coffees, I like the general openness of the community, nothing is too taboo to dicuss. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!"
Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!
Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well. "
I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!
Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.
I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?"
No it's mainly turnips |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!
Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.
I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?
No it's mainly turnips "
Well that's a turnip for the books.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"When I enjoy it you will find me here. When I'm not enjoying it, you can seek me here or seek me there, but you will not find me anywhere.
I'd check all the pubs and McDonald's in Ryanshire. It wouldn't take me long to find you!
Ah that's true. My pumpkin outfit is a bit of a giveaway as well.
I thought that was the local costume of Ryanshire?
No it's mainly turnips
Well that's a turnip for the books.
"
You've entered Chipahoy territory with a pun like that.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't be here. I'm here to meet guys. I love meeting the guys I meet. I wouldn't stay here for any other reason."
This and I do like the forums.
When it becomes boring or a chore or not enjoyable I will leave. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This site is a comfy cardigan I put in when I feel like being silly, if I want to pick up women I hang around the laundrette in my underware.
You told me you don't wear any. "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I had a message from the Advisor of Trips site. I'm really popular there. Apparently my four re_iews have been read by 3,214 people. That's more than the Fab _iews I've had.
It's the way forward, I tell you.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Or do you simply use the site out of habit/familiarity?
Personally, I've pretty much ceased seeing this place as somewhere I can find women I want to meet and swing with for fun, and pretty much just use the forum when I want to chat about something or pass the time.
Anyone else feel the same way?"
I am a masochist - that s why |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I only really chat to one of my friends on here. I do have something else in mind for here, but if it doesnt happen, it doesnt, and I may well leave. Im not meeting, which is my choice but the site for me seemed to have changed before I made that decision not to meet others. Quiet and not much happening "
Well, not much changed really. Still think leaving is one option but im undecided  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
