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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol |
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"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"
I am trying to live my life so that I only regret what I haven't done rather than what I have |
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Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.
The current and future are far more important to me.
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I've made some huge ass mistakes over the yrs an there's lots id do different with the nollage iv gained but if I not made the mistakes I'd not have the nollage so in all honesty I can't say I regret any of them they all tort me something good and bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've made some huge ass mistakes over the yrs an there's lots id do different with the nollage iv gained but if I not made the mistakes I'd not have the nollage so in all honesty I can't say I regret any of them they all tort me something good and bad"
yes that's a good positive way of looking at things. xx
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"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol
I am trying to live my life so that I only regret what I haven't done rather than what I have"
+1 
I have been offered 3 jobs in the USA over the years and for one reason or another, never took them. They are one of my few regrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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when i was a teenager i met a man from nigeria, and when my parents found out they were shocked so i told him i didnt want to see him again, i thought maybe they were right, people would stare at us and he was shorter than me, only afterwards my mum said she didnt mind me seeing him, maybe he was a nice man its just that she was surprised to see me with him as where we live i only knew of two black people.
Years later i regreted it because he seemed so nice.
just little things like that i regret sometimes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I regetted divorcing my ex wife because the grass wasn't green on the other side.she was the best thing that happened in my life."
That's very sad you never knew until it was too late. x Really hope you told her even if it was over .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a rollercoaster of a life and made many bad choices but I never hold on to feelings of regret or guilt for long, it's very damaging to do so. Just live, learn and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a rollercoaster of a life and made many bad choices but I never hold on to feelings of regret or guilt for long, it's very damaging to do so. Just live, learn and move on"
Thats sooo true!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"game,the funny thing was that we were only married for 9 years,but remain best mate for the next 30 odd years."
And I really hope you told her how you felt .. as it sounds like you loved her and still do. xx
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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Biggest regret i have is listening to so called 'family' who try to control my life for their own gain and not let me be me. 
It's cost me a lot in life but hopefully working towards my own happiness now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have any regrets.... Life's to short!
I just learn from my mistakes!
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live in the present, look forward to the future and learn from the past.
"What's done is done and what's won is won, and what's lost is lost and gone forever" Phil Coulter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only 1 main regret really and thats playing the hockey match that led to my med discharge from the army.... then again i've seen some of the women a few days later and thats also led to regret   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I regret how I've let some people treat me and how they have made me feel but some lessons have taken me longer to learn than others but I'm getting there |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"
Actually you can live without regrets. I do. What is past is past - you learn from your mistakes and they make you a better or wiser person. Therefore, there is nothing to regret. Each experience, however unpleasant it may be, is important and teaches you something.
Non, je ne regrette rien. |
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I think in reality I should have started a new life after the kids left home.
I cant complain really Im lucky in many ways but have missed out on life for 20 years. Dont know how I would have managed alone though.
Now too late to rectify. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is no such thing as a life without any regrets. However regrets can become either burdens that interfere with your present happiness and restrict your future or motivation to move forward. Have you found yourself overcome by regrets how did you deal with it ?? I know we can't live in the past and looking back don't always help, But we do live and lean. Now have that song in my head My way , lolol"
Regrets on how my life turn out no.... regrets over past loves and lovers no .
I prefer to move forward looking back only to remember a lesson learned you can't regret any think in life as life's to short to regret any part of living .
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I regret never falling in love Well there still time .. xx Never say Never it come calling when your not looking. xxx"
I meant when I was younger, I have zero desire for it now: I am truly happy single |
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Not knocking on my first loves door. We'd split due to external circumstances but I ended up back living where he was n passing by his door. Have since discovered he was also single at the time n would've loved to see me. Both since married I'm divorced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.
The current and future are far more important to me.
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My thoughts exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I could (& nearly did!!) list all the times I'd like to go back to and have a little word with myself!! But if I changed anything I wouldn't be where I am here & now. And its a pretty cool place.
The past is history, the future a mystery, but now is a gift... that's why its called the present.
(Yes I did just quote Kung Fu Panda!!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Life is one big ol' learning curve, I don't have any regrets, just experiences that have shaped me, it's all part of me and makes me who I am today."
Yes you're right in saying that .. I have one very big one .. My dad was taken into hospital They was going to let us take him home but had him stay in a side room .. 2 nd day I go into see him he is sitting on end of the bed saying joanne you coming to take me home I say I can't Dad your not well ............ next morning mum had a call he was dead had an aneurysm. I just wish I had taken him home to die in his own bed .. as he always said when he was going to go he wished to be at home.
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"Yes you do of course live and learn, it makes us the people we are today. But you should never regret anything you have done, you could never alter/change the past and it should stay firmly there or else you will dwell on it and it will become all consuming.
The current and future are far more important to me.
My thoughts exactly! "
Mine too julie summed it up pretty well really xx |
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