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Can you have a girlfirend and still be a single male swinger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you both have to be on site whats good for one is good for the other "
No you don't. Lots of people exist in a decent relationship and they don't both swing but the non swinging partner is aware of the swinging partners activities.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends too on if its a serious relationship because I would imagine it would be very hurtful to the other person knowing the partner is sitting around with naked people "
it has to be a mutual decision and then yes if not mutual then no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets not forget all the "single" women swingers as well. 
Her price is far above rubies and her position far above criticism."
They are still full of crap just as much as single guys, just wanted a bit of balance. |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Lets not forget all the "single" women swingers as well.
Her price is far above rubies and her position far above criticism.
They are still full of crap just as much as single guys, just wanted a bit of balance."
I claim the Francis Urquhart defence.
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"you both have to be on site whats good for one is good for the other No you don't. Lots of people exist in a decent relationship and they don't both swing but the non swinging partner is aware of the swinging partners activities."
There are many reasons why attached people would be on here alone. Ok the majority are doing it without their partners knowledge or consent but again there are many reasons fortthis as well, not just horniness of the man or woman (thought I'd balance it out a bit)
We have no place second guessing and apportionment blame. All we can do is try to avoid playing with attached single people as much as we can if it causes us moral dilemmas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends too on if its a serious relationship because I would imagine it would be very hurtful to the other person knowing the partner is sitting around with naked people "
Can only say on my part if I was in a relationship , no way on earth would I allow my partner to be meeting other people , would hurt too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if he is swinging alone then yes he is a single male.
However then enters the is he a swinger or is her a cheater area, which is a lot more controversial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"of course you can, because when she finds out ( which she will ) you will be single anyway
Lots of women never find out though."
Oh , but they know, of course you know , behaviour, changes, sex changes, even smells change,
They know, but don't want to admit it or confront it, because it may change their life, and some are very needy, they chose to blank out anything that is real, to keep a fantasy going.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in this situation for a while, was seeing a girl who kind of opened my eyes to sexual experimentation, she then moved to a different city to study. We were crazy about eachother and didn't want to break up and it kind of lead on to this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes absolutely 100% if the other half is aware of the fact,vice-versa for females also. If you're in love with your partner it's totally different to meeting people for no strings sex. Most males and a lot of females can fuck someone with no ties as it's pure lust with no emotional attachment. If one half of a couple has a much higher sex drive than the other,casual sex with strangers is a solution that can work. Of course we all know that it's not always with their partners consent but that's another issue really. |
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