 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x "
I can see where you are coming from - it is why I have a line in my profile somewhere that I do not want to ask away and that I expect a half decent profile and good conversation.
Good communication is a two way thing indeed.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x "
not at all... the one word replies are the ones that send me round the bend.... like trying to draw blood from a stone..... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Yes but don't worry. You have very perky boobs.
Ah its ok if you have perky boobs .. what if you can tuck them in your socks  "
this made me laugh as my boobs are far from perky ,i think my avatar pic was taken whilst i was lying down and indulging in naughtiness( which always makes me more photogenic!) !! x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as
selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x "
Yes you are lazy too |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Sometimes a balance must be reached between talking at /conversation with a person so as not to be pushy but genuinely find out if all are attracted by each others attributes..... I blame it on twitter & text conversations being such a blunt tool to which many younger Fabbers are use to. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yes but don't worry. You have very perky boobs.
Ah its ok if you have perky boobs .. what if you can tuck them in your socks
this made me laugh as my boobs are far from perky ,i think my avatar pic was taken whilst i was lying down and indulging in naughtiness( which always makes me more photogenic!) !! x"
ooo Thanks for the tip
* note to self take pics laying down*
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No I don't think It's harsh. I can't be bothered with ppl that can't hold a conversation on here. Means they ain't gonna be much cop if we actually sat over coffee to have one!! If a message (or after a few) doesn't grab my attention i just delete and move on...  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
My pet hate is if after we ask a guy to tell us about himself, after we've written initially about ourselves, he then replies, 'what do you want to know'.
I just reply 'nothing' and don't bother any further. I can't stand that people can't write a few lines about themselves or any type of conversation. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"My pet hate is if after we ask a guy to tell us about himself, after we've written initially about ourselves, he then replies, 'what do you want to know'.
I just reply 'nothing' and don't bother any further. I can't stand that people can't write a few lines about themselves or any type of conversation. "
YES! thats exactly what i mean, especially if they messaged you and then ask "what do you want to know"... its in what you want to tell me that i can get the measure of a person! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"My pet hate is if after we ask a guy to tell us about himself, after we've written initially about ourselves, he then replies, 'what do you want to know'.
I just reply 'nothing' and don't bother any further. I can't stand that people can't write a few lines about themselves or any type of conversation.
YES! thats exactly what i mean, especially if they messaged you and then ask "what do you want to know"... its in what you want to tell me that i can get the measure of a person!"
Seconded! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Nothing worse, it's like having your teeth pulled!!
Not that I've progressed to dentures just yet, 
I usually come to the conclusion if you can't be arssed! Neither can I/us |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago
South London |
Conversation is very important to me. I mean, if that doesn't flow well from the very beginning, what's the rest of it going to be like?
It's a good conversation that gets me hooked every time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x "
Not at all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I find it really irritating when people message you with statements rather than conversation, which in my opinion requires questions and answers from both sides.I just cant be bothered if im messaged by someone who then doesnt ask anything and expects me to keep the conversation going. It always makes me think if the person is a lazy conversationalist will they be just as selfish as lovers?
Am i harsh? x "
Have to say I agree...statements aren't very welcoming & considering the aim is to share a bed at some point (depending on how you get down) it's not a good start in my opinion & prob does shed a little light on what to expect. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
