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"every woman comes from having a winky inserted into her vajayjay" I just came from reading this, you do you pal!  | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!"OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ?? You said ask | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy. "How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action? | |||
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"every woman comes from having a winky inserted into her vajayjay I just came from reading this, you do you pal! "Was it the winky or the vajayjay that tipped you over the edge CD? | |||
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"Nothing puts me off more than saying they will make a woman come first. Fuck that I didn't want to come first. I did come from penetration but I know a lot of women dont" Did you come every time like all the men do? | |||
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"Hurrah! Excellent thread.
Yay "I have come ONCE from penetration in my entire life. I love it but it doesn't get me there. | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask "All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy.
How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action?"I’d prefer it I didn’t have to, I’ve got stuff to do.
I’m kidding.  personally, try something else maybe. | |||
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"Oh but I like penetrative orgasms before he cums. I'm interested in reading the thread either way." And do you come every time? | |||
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"every woman comes from having a winky inserted into her vajayjay I just came from reading this, you do you pal!
Was it the winky or the vajayjay that tipped you over the edge CD? "Oh you know me. Both.  | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either "Haha the all men bit was me being silly are you able to show/tell them what works? | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy.
How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action?
I’d prefer it I didn’t have to, I’ve got stuff to do.
I’m kidding. personally, try something else maybe. "Do you take it as a failure? | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job "OK Noted  | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either "In my sex life, the men don't ask, don't explore and don't GAF once they've come. I feel I must not be worth it. | |||
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"Nothing puts me off more than saying they will make a woman come first. Fuck that I didn't want to come first. I did come from penetration but I know a lot of women dont Did you come every time like all the men do? " No. 98% of the time but sometimes no matter how good the sex is an orgasm just isn't going to happen. It's always been with guys that don't have an issue | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
Haha the all men bit was me being silly are you able to show/tell them what works?"Phew! I think... and this may be being presumptuous... they figure it out pretty quickly
I am one of the lucky penetrative orgasmers as well though... | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
In my sex life, the men don't ask, don't explore and don't GAF once they've come. I feel I must not be worth it. "Omg same | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job
OK Noted
I tell you what a lot of the problem is, right, half the time they don’t go long enough and half the time they’re feeling like they’re getting there and they stop and do something different ". That feels great. Oh she likes this I’ll go faster or totally change the rhythm then. That should do it | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
Haha the all men bit was me being silly are you able to show/tell them what works?
Phew!
I think... and this may be being presumptuous... they figure it out pretty quickly
I am one of the lucky penetrative orgasmers as well though..."Is it a fairly quick process? Like can you get there easily? | |||
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"It’s an extremely humbling experience when you realise this as a man." Humble crumble | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job
OK Noted
I tell you what a lot of the problem is, right, half the time they don’t go long enough and half the time they’re feeling like they’re getting there and they stop and do something different
. That feels great. Oh she likes this I’ll go faster or totally change the rhythm then. That should do it "Exactly…. It’s like driving safely along a motorway and not crashing so you decide to put your foot down and change lanes without checking your mirrors | |||
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job
OK Noted
I tell you what a lot of the problem is, right, half the time they don’t go long enough and half the time they’re feeling like they’re getting there and they stop and do something different
. That feels great. Oh she likes this I’ll go faster or totally change the rhythm then. That should do it
Exactly…. It’s like driving safely along a motorway and not crashing so you decide to put your foot down and change lanes without checking your mirrors "Haha yep! | |||
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my poor foofy goes into shock and can’t be touched for a few minutes!
But one thing I hate and get a lot of is a couple of minutes in and the guy saying “cum on my cock!” I mean that’s just asking for a fake orgasm! | |||
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"I’m surprised how many women claim to rarely cum with their partner It always happens with me because I’ve no issue communicating properly and asking, “what gets you off” if we’re struggling Was also extremely lucky to have a girlfriend when I was younger that showed me exactly how to go down on a woman and I’d say about 90% of my hooks have loved it And I’ve never understood women that fake it. Faking it is like telling someone you love their cooking when you don’t. You’ll just get more of the same Communication is so important and men and woman are equally bad at it " I guarantee you I could give you such a good fake you’d not be able to tell | |||
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"It’s an extremely humbling experience when you realise this as a man. Humble crumble "I’ve know this for quite some time but talking to other men it’s unbelievable how many are completely clueless about how women work. It’s as if they’ve never had a partner that they’ve actually communicated with. | |||
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"Love this post and I also get the ick when I get the “i’ll make you cum” messages. No you won’t. It’s not through lack of trying or wanting. I’m just not wired that way. Clit stimulation, yes, but even that’s perseverance and hitting the sweet spot. Xx" Yeah you won’t. You definitely won’t | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either "I like this. It's good to be able to talk about these things and is definitely best to find out what works | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy.
How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action?
I’d prefer it I didn’t have to, I’ve got stuff to do.
I’m kidding. personally, try something else maybe.
Do you take it as a failure?"She failed. Not me
Again, this is a joke. I’m sorry.
No, not realy, as long as I knew her, and she gave me good vibes about everything and I new she was enjoying it all, no, why is that a failure?
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"Well my question would be obvious to you Fluffster
Go! Ask!
OK so what gets you off personally , in an ideal world ??
You said ask
All sorts of things but a winky in my vajayjay will never finish the job
OK Noted
I tell you what a lot of the problem is, right, half the time they don’t go long enough and half the time they’re feeling like they’re getting there and they stop and do something different "* Added to notes * | |||
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"Prior to having kids I didn't orgasm from penetration but since then I do MrsAbz " Not just me! Thank you
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"Hmm, that is very true. Prior to having kids I didn't orgasm from penetration but since then I do BUT I can't take a VWE without being in pain. Lots of pain. I don't think it is abnormal to orgasm or not from PIV sex. Everyone has different things they like. Surely all men (and women) know this? MrsAbz " Oh you would like to think that! | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy. "o do you have eagle eyes and short hair and that sexy scar as well | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
Haha the all men bit was me being silly are you able to show/tell them what works?
Phew!
I think... and this may be being presumptuous... they figure it out pretty quickly
I am one of the lucky penetrative orgasmers as well though...
Is it a fairly quick process? Like can you get there easily?"Well... if my brain is turned on then my body tends to rush to the finish line quickly. In a kind of "fuck yes, there it is" orgasmic release. Which then builds up to the all singing, all dancing, champagne popping, brain melting, out of body experience (or experiences) to follow. The OOBE has only happened straight away with 2 men... they'd really got my brain revved. If my brain isn't turned on, I won't be doing the sex. So, short answer... yes | |||
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"I'll be honest, I've never made a woman cum from just sticking in my Penis. Tongue, fingers, toys. It's all good fun "And that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with your winky either | |||
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"I didn't until after having kids which is a bit odd. It's different, quieter and less overwhelming than a clitoral orgasm. And it's definitely not every time. It took a while to get the confidence to just stick a hand down there when needed because I didn't want it to feel like a criticism of what's being done. But sometimes only know what you need to make it happen and I'm greedy like that. Was there a question or were we just talking about. I feel a bit like I've not answered and have overshared.
J"It was after kids it worked for me too! Although I often prefer it to clitoral stimulation. Maybe it shifted things about a bit when they came out? MrsAbz | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either "I agree. The good ones ask, explore, find what works. It’s not a solo job where they are looking to orgasm and forget all about you. One of my first ever “best” was a partner who the first time we ever had sex did all the right things but I couldn’t orgasm. We still had a great time. He took the time before we next had sex to have a chat. He said, I noticed you were enjoying yourself based on obvious body signs but I didn’t think you orgasmed. Would you show me what works for you so that we can enjoy your orgasms together next time? Brilliant way to go about it. | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
Haha the all men bit was me being silly are you able to show/tell them what works?
Phew!
I think... and this may be being presumptuous... they figure it out pretty quickly
I am one of the lucky penetrative orgasmers as well though...
Is it a fairly quick process? Like can you get there easily?
Well... if my brain is turned on then my body tends to rush to the finish line quickly. In a kind of "fuck yes, there it is" orgasmic release. Which then builds up to the all singing, all dancing, champagne popping, brain melting, out of body experience (or experiences) to follow.
The OOBE has only happened straight away with 2 men... they'd really got my brain revved.
If my brain isn't turned on, I won't be doing the sex. So, short answer... yes "This is the same for me too. Depends on the person. It’s totally a mind thing for me. Hard to explain really so I didn’t bother. I know what I mean though | |||
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"Hmm, that is very true. Prior to having kids I didn't orgasm from penetration but since then I do BUT I can't take a VWE without being in pain. Lots of pain. I don't think it is abnormal to orgasm or not from PIV sex. Everyone has different things they like. Surely all men (and women) know this? MrsAbz Oh you would like to think that! " I have clearly lived a very sheltered life up here in the wild lands and not met enough men to disabuse me of the notion they all know stuff
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"Hmm, that is very true. Prior to having kids I didn't orgasm from penetration but since then I do BUT I can't take a VWE without being in pain. Lots of pain. I don't think it is abnormal to orgasm or not from PIV sex. Everyone has different things they like. Surely all men (and women) know this? MrsAbz Oh you would like to think that! I have clearly lived a very sheltered life up here in the wild lands and not met enough men to disabuse me of the notion they all know stuff
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"Penetrative orgasms? The lady kind? Seems to me that the entire human race thinks that every woman comes from having a winky inserted into her vajayjay but actually it’s not true. Many women can’t/don’t orgasm from that and that’s fine. Doesn’t make us abnormal or mean it was a shit shag but literally ALL men (yeah I went there) seem to think a woman HAS to come or they didn’t succeed! As an added extra, what’s with the ‘always make a woman come first’ stuff? How’s that possible given how many women don’t come or fake it? Happy Saturday "A lot of men think that if they go harder and faster that will work... | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers " Multipliers? Like gremlins? | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
I agree. The good ones ask, explore, find what works. It’s not a solo job where they are looking to orgasm and forget all about you.
One of my first ever “best” was a partner who the first time we ever had sex did all the right things but I couldn’t orgasm. We still had a great time. He took the time before we next had sex to have a chat.
He said, I noticed you were enjoying yourself based on obvious body signs but I didn’t think you orgasmed. Would you show me what works for you so that we can enjoy your orgasms together next time? Brilliant way to go about it. "Love this | |||
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"I don't actually think most men care if we come or not, as long as they do. No one has ever not come because I couldn't. " I don't think this is universally true, but I think there is some truth to it. Some men do say The Things (I can breathe through my ears, all that matters is your pleasure, I promise I can make you squirt, etc) - not because they mean them, but because they want to get their end away. (I do know some guys who do mean it) | |||
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"I promise my women nothing but good conversation and invaluable advice on the rare fish trade. If anyone comes at all, it is usually due to the stimulating bants" My ex needed to be on her side to orgasm from penetration, if we weren't able to talk about it then I probably would never have known | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? " multiply when wet exactly | |||
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" I tell you what a lot of the problem is, right, half the time they don’t go long enough and half the time they’re feeling like they’re getting there and they stop and do something different "Exactly this... But usually because they're tongue has got cramp | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? " I get chills when I’m multiplying | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? I get chills when I’m multiplying " day sex is a must tho never feed it after midnight | |||
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"I only orgasm through penetration when I’m in control riding or during anal. But I still absolutely adore every other position. Not having an orgasm is great as you get to do the sex a bit longer my poor foofy goes into shock and can’t be touched for a few minutes!
But one thing I hate and get a lot of is a couple of minutes in and the guy saying “cum on my cock!” I mean that’s just asking for a fake orgasm! "Omg isn’t it?! | |||
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it " Three cheers for blended O’s | |||
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it Three cheers for blended O’s "Meanwhile I generally only cum through indirect clit stimulation and some guys with their Golden Methods To Make You Cum and Squirt So Much You Flood Rivers Cities Away... mash that clit like a caffeinated toddler in a toy store. That shit just fucking hurts. stop it. | |||
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"I promise my women nothing but good conversation and invaluable advice on the rare fish trade. If anyone comes at all, it is usually due to the stimulating bants" See... that's the way | |||
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"I didn't until after having kids which is a bit odd. It's different, quieter and less overwhelming than a clitoral orgasm. And it's definitely not every time. It took a while to get the confidence to just stick a hand down there when needed because I didn't want it to feel like a criticism of what's being done. But sometimes only know what you need to make it happen and I'm greedy like that. Was there a question or were we just talking about. I feel a bit like I've not answered and have overshared.
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I'm quite self conscious about it.....
Anyways, I've never ever come from penetration alone. However earlier today, I came from clit stimulation with penetration at the same time (and nipple stimulation too). That was nice | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? I get chills when I’m multiplying " Do you lose control, from the power…your supplying!!!! | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? " Don’t let them get wet or feed them after midnight | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? multiply when wet exactly" | |||
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"Anyone who tells me I AM going come and/or it'll be achieved in a certain way, can get in the bin! Nowadays, sometimes I can't even make myself come. The nerve damage extends into *that* bit too. I can't feel the very inside part of my vag properly and sometimes, my clit is just numb. I also have uterine prolapse and wear a silicone ring to keep it up. Sometimes, penetration hurts and someone just smashing around there is just going to put me in agony and for a few days. Might even make me bleed. I'm quite reluctant to do the Sex with anyone we haven't communicated clearly with and who doesn't run away at the idea of feeling a silicone thingy with their fingers I'm quite self conscious about it.....
Anyways, I've never ever come from penetration alone. However earlier today, I came from clit stimulation with penetration at the same time (and nipple stimulation too). That was nice "*hugs* glad you came | |||
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"Think i must have been really lucky most lasses iv boinked were multipliers Multipliers? Like gremlins? I get chills when I’m multiplying Do you lose control, from the power…your supplying!!!! " I do I do! | |||
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it " Together | |||
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"It’s an extremely humbling experience when you realise this as a man. Humble crumble
I’ve know this for quite some time but talking to other men it’s unbelievable how many are completely clueless about how women work. It’s as if they’ve never had a partner that they’ve actually communicated with."I also think there’s an element of ‘I know best’ with a lot of men. They’ve decided how to do it and off they go, regardless of the feedback | |||
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"I promise my women nothing but good conversation and invaluable advice on the rare fish trade. If anyone comes at all, it is usually due to the stimulating bants See... that's the way "Riveting bants is half the battle. You may even learn a little about what works for her on the way | |||
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"Communication is key! Just don’t say I’m going to cum or that’s it I’m done!!! " But how else will you know?! | |||
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"Well as my fingers are thicker and bigger than my dick I let them do the walk" But do they get results? | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy.
How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action?
I’d prefer it I didn’t have to, I’ve got stuff to do.
I’m kidding. personally, try something else maybe.
Do you take it as a failure?
She failed. Not me
Again, this is a joke. I’m sorry.
No, not realy, as long as I knew her, and she gave me good vibes about everything and I new she was enjoying it all, no, why is that a failure?
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"Well as my fingers are thicker and bigger than my dick I let them do the walk But do they get results?" they carry there own towel | |||
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"It’s an extremely humbling experience when you realise this as a man. Humble crumble
I’ve know this for quite some time but talking to other men it’s unbelievable how many are completely clueless about how women work. It’s as if they’ve never had a partner that they’ve actually communicated with.
I also think there’s an element of ‘I know best’ with a lot of men. They’ve decided how to do it and off they go, regardless of the feedback "I think that's a lot of people, to be fair. At the risk of humble bragging, I'm occasionally asked how I figure stuff out with people. I... observe. High level technical postgraduate degree skills over here. Seeing what happens when I do a thing. Gosh. Give that girl a medal. | |||
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"Definitely not all men, OP. Most of the guys I've known have actually asked... and explored... to find out what works. And I like it when they orgasm first... they tend to have that look of shock and bliss that's adorable
They've not seemed to mind it either
I agree. The good ones ask, explore, find what works. It’s not a solo job where they are looking to orgasm and forget all about you.
One of my first ever “best” was a partner who the first time we ever had sex did all the right things but I couldn’t orgasm. We still had a great time. He took the time before we next had sex to have a chat.
He said, I noticed you were enjoying yourself based on obvious body signs but I didn’t think you orgasmed. Would you show me what works for you so that we can enjoy your orgasms together next time? Brilliant way to go about it. "What a legend! | |||
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"I can speak from the opposite perspective. I cum a lot through penetration. A stupid amount. From the other side I get "I will follow the Golden Formula To Please All Ladies and you will love it!" I'm sitting here like, yeah, that sounds kind of boring, can you not? "But you've never experienced my Patented Golden Formula!" I might know my body better than you mate... "(insert some terribly written smut about how he will make me squirt so hard that I will flood the River Mersey - for those not up on their geography, this is in Liverpool and I am in Manchester)" *sigh*" You and your millions of orgasms | |||
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"I promise my women nothing but good conversation and invaluable advice on the rare fish trade. If anyone comes at all, it is usually due to the stimulating bants See... that's the way
Riveting bants is half the battle. You may even learn a little about what works for her on the way "Bants about rivets... even better | |||
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"I can speak from the opposite perspective. I cum a lot through penetration. A stupid amount. From the other side I get "I will follow the Golden Formula To Please All Ladies and you will love it!" I'm sitting here like, yeah, that sounds kind of boring, can you not? "But you've never experienced my Patented Golden Formula!" I might know my body better than you mate... "(insert some terribly written smut about how he will make me squirt so hard that I will flood the River Mersey - for those not up on their geography, this is in Liverpool and I am in Manchester)" *sigh* You and your millions of orgasms "I'd say I'm sorry but I'd be lying | |||
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"I don't actually think most men care if we come or not, as long as they do. No one has ever not come because I couldn't. It takes ages for me to "warm up" to the point of being close and VP isn't going to be the way to get the job done. I probably could have, when I was younger, but no one ever talked about sex, and I had no idea that feeling was like I was going to explode was actually going to be an orgasm... It always felt like I was going to wet myself, I guess I might well have squirted, but I always held it back or stopped the guy. Years of various medications affected my libido, and I think everything is a little less sensitive now, it wasn't until my late 30s I found I could make myself come using a vibrator. Still waiting on the guy who can spend hours/breath through his ears to make it happen "There’s plenty on here | |||
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"I promise my women nothing but good conversation and invaluable advice on the rare fish trade. If anyone comes at all, it is usually due to the stimulating bants" Do many women take up your advice? | |||
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it " And do the men mind that? | |||
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"Penetrative orgasms? The lady kind? Seems to me that the entire human race thinks that every woman comes from having a winky inserted into her vajayjay but actually it’s not true. Many women can’t/don’t orgasm from that and that’s fine. Doesn’t make us abnormal or mean it was a shit shag but literally ALL men (yeah I went there) seem to think a woman HAS to come or they didn’t succeed! As an added extra, what’s with the ‘always make a woman come first’ stuff? How’s that possible given how many women don’t come or fake it? Happy Saturday
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it And do the men mind that? I prefer to give the clit stim rather than her doing it to herself but I am goal orientated " So why do you prefer doing it to her doing it herself? | |||
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"I remember, when I was a lot younger, sleeping with an older woman who had zero hangups about this. And I adored her for that. Now I’m just used to sleeping with women who don’t have hangups about it - but that was probably the first time for me. I think I was in my early 20s. She was mid-40s. We’d hooked up through one of the adult groups on Yahoo (yep, well and truly the pre-Fab days) and she proposed fucking me in her daughter’s student flat while the daughter was away on holiday. The thing I’ll never forget is her on top, riding me, and slowing down to say “I’m going to use my fingers to make myself come, is that okay with you?” Of course it was okay with me. It was hot as hell, for fuck’s sake! Watching her finger her clit while sliding up and down on my cock was amazing. I loved every second. And I got to feel every muscle inside her tensing and releasing around my cock when she came. It was great." Do you think if she’d been the same age as you you’d have felt the same? | |||
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it And do the men mind that?" If they do then they need to give their head a wobble. It's not a criticism of their skills but knowledge of your own body. Sometimes my handjobs just aren't fast and hard enough for long enough. My forearm cramps up. I don't get pissy and I encourage B to take over because I want him to have a splendid orgasm
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"Having an orgasm with a penis inside me is without question my favourite type of orgasm, but I mostly need clit stimulation to achieve it And do the men mind that? I prefer to give the clit stim rather than her doing it to herself but I am goal orientated So why do you prefer doing it to her doing it herself?" Probably a control thing. I am a pleasure Dom so find it hard to be not in control of the pleasure. However if she is going to get their and I am not I would be ok with it. | |||
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"My FWB cums with nipple play, cums again with some clit play, cums a 3rd time from oral then will cum again from penetrative sex? Her average is 3/4 times just from wakening up and letting me play" That'd take me a month. Possibly longer. I'd need snacks. | |||
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"Men thinking women come from a penis in them?" Y’know what I find? That it does happen, plenty, but usually only because of all the other things we’ve been doing beforehand. When we’re both that far gone already from oral, fingers, and everything else … finally pushing inside her can be the thing that takes her over the edge into coming. | |||
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"Men thinking women come from a penis in them? Can't blame the guys when you hear some of the crap women come out with on here really. " I do… but we’re all different right?
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"Men thinking women come from a penis in them? Y’know what I find? That it does happen, plenty, but usually only because of all the other things we’ve been doing beforehand. When we’re both that far gone already from oral, fingers, and everything else … finally pushing inside her can be the thing that takes her over the edge into coming." Yep. This | |||
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"Men thinking women come from a penis in them? Y’know what I find? That it does happen, plenty, but usually only because of all the other things we’ve been doing beforehand. When we’re both that far gone already from oral, fingers, and everything else … finally pushing inside her can be the thing that takes her over the edge into coming." Well done you | |||
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"Men thinking women come from a penis in them? Can't blame the guys when you hear some of the crap women come out with on here really. I do… but we’re all different right?
Also I would like to add that the level of BS on here is not exclusively female… "Oh it's definitely 50/50. Half the time people come out with shite in a bid to look more appealing to the opposite sex. Oh oh me, just look at me with your penis and I'll squirt all over honey | |||
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"Had a girlfriend who never came from penetrative sex. Dented my ego to start with but then just learnt to enjoy the sex and not worry about it." See the sex is still enjoyable even without an orgasm! | |||
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"I do come from penetration and pretty quickly too if the guy knows what he is doing. What i don't come with is oral. He could be there all day. Not going to happen." Even if he breathes through his ears? | |||
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"Will always remember the 2md guy I had sex with. He was on top. Penis goes in (apparently, I didn't feel it). We switched positions and I was on top. I just wanted him to finish, i was looking over his shoulder at my nails and he goes "why are you quiet?", I said guess and he told me to simulate. I didn't obviously. " Bloody hell.  | |||
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"I dont talk about it, I’m more of an action type of guy.
How would you/do you feel if you don’t make a woman come from your winky action?
I’d prefer it I didn’t have to, I’ve got stuff to do.
I’m kidding. personally, try something else maybe.
Do you take it as a failure?
She failed. Not me
Again, this is a joke. I’m sorry.
No, not realy, as long as I knew her, and she gave me good vibes about everything and I new she was enjoying it all, no, why is that a failure?
You’d be amazed how many men think it’s their fault!"We are all different. Nothing surprises me any more. | |||
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"What i don't come with is oral. He could be there all day. Not going to happen." That was me. I’ve cum from oral with exactly three humans in my life. What happened? They listened to the very specific way I need oral. This fast, suck like you’re trying to siphon some liquid from a 6m anti gravity tubing system isn’t what works for me. Facial hair touching my bits. Too fast. Too rough. Too deep. But then, the few who listened to what I needed have given me lovely oral pleasures. May you one day find pleasure from oral if that’s your wish. | |||
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"Had a girlfriend who never came from penetrative sex. Dented my ego to start with but then just learnt to enjoy the sex and not worry about it. See the sex is still enjoyable even without an orgasm!" Wouldn't know, I always came
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" This fast, suck like you’re trying to siphon some liquid from a 6m anti gravity tubing system isn’t what works for me. Facial hair touching my bits. Too fast. Too rough. Too deep. " Oh Bella, the bit about siphoning liquid made me snort out loud What about mouth pipetting? Would that be any better? | |||
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" This fast, suck like you’re trying to siphon some liquid from a 6m anti gravity tubing system isn’t what works for me. Facial hair touching my bits. Too fast. Too rough. Too deep. Oh Bella, the bit about siphoning liquid made me snort out loud What about mouth pipetting? Would that be any better? "Made me cross my legs and wince | |||
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"One of those mini wands held in the right position during PIV sex is amazing and shouldn't dent anyone's ego. J Wands make my clit go numb really quickly. I don't get on with vibrator-y things at all "You know, I love this thread. It's almost as if we're individuals and there is no one thing that works for all women! Who knew?
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"I do come from penetration and pretty quickly too if the guy knows what he is doing. What i don't come with is oral. He could be there all day. Not going to happen." I used to be like that with oral. Till I found a guy with some serious oral skills, had my first oral orgasm first time we met sexually and that man knows exactly how to turn me to Jelly | |||
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" You know, I love this thread. It's almost as if we're individuals and there is no one thing that works for all women! Who knew?
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"If i read the whole thread will it make me chuckle?" Yes, but if you follow the green arrow on some comments you may laugh so hard you do a little wee too. | |||
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