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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?
It's spelt out in black and white.
I'm curious 
And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Occasionally I'll put a thanks on the end if it's a minor infraction.
I like to keep my No pretty succinct and clear though  "
Because manners don't cost a thing right? |
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I try talking to people or trying to prove a genuine/legit and here for dun but seems it gets ignored and left but if i say tha ks but no thanks if a guy that is bi messages people get arsy, i not bi or gay its ladies all way for me. And id go above and beyond to please befor myself not just take. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point."
This completely! |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point."
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"Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?
It's spelt out in black and white.
I'm curious
And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.
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I joke with my missus that ‘no’ means ‘yes’, and ‘yes’ means ‘harder’ 
But in all seriousness, a single ‘no’ (or ‘no thanks’) should be enough. Why others can't accept that, I'll never know |
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"If it gets all the way to the point where I need to literally and plainly say ‘no’, then someone has been reeeally missing the (lack of) signals to that point.
This completely! "
I say yes. Up to 11.
Past 11, even.
They soon lose their appetite.
I’m a yes person through and through  |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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"Which part of it is the most difficult to understand? The N or the O?
It's spelt out in black and white.
I'm curious
And if you use more words to say NO politely and be adult it's even bloody worse. Far too many letters I'm guessing.
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Fragile egos?
Maybe fellas that arnt used to hearing no and think they can pick up whoever they want and think itll be easier on here?
Not everyone is gonna fancy everyone, it's not a personal attack. Just accept it and keep it moving. |
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Depends on them, if they’ve read my profile and made an effort but I just don’t fancy them I tend to have a little sympathy for them and give them a “no thanks”, maybe even chat a little on the understanding we won’t be meeting.
Otherwise I just don’t reply and block repeat offenders.
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