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"Um. It's something in the connection. That feedback loop is where the best sex lives  "
Feedback loop! Yep, this.
Also adding that when we're in a certain part of our dynamic then it's also the aftercare for each other. Because it can be amazing in that moment but needs the cuddle puddle afterwards to keep it that way.
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From a personal perspective, whilst I may list a myriad of diverse factors that may serve to augment the intensity of sex for me, I would personally define really amazing sex as when I become absolutely ‘lost’ in the moment and the passion absolutely possesses me.
Intrinsically, it’s akin to a burning NEED to be touching/tasting/fucking a partner in this moment.
It’s really most deliriously delicious in fact  |
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By *ellaseasWoman 38 weeks ago
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The connection between you.
Thats what turns it from good sex to fucking amazing, think about you all the time, turn me on like nothing I've ever experienced, i will do anything for you sex.
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When you're completely lost in the moment. You have no idea how much time has passed; you never want it to end; the rest of the world melts away and you're just there, together, wanting more and more of each other.
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By *a LunaWoman 38 weeks ago
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When you can totally relax, have fun and not try. The sensuality, the lust, the longing is just there. You’re in tune with each other but you don’t take it so seriously. You enjoy each other. Their body is your playground. |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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The connection, the feedback loop, where the passion shows up in the grip of each other and those deep kisses, utterly lost in pleasure, not wanting it to end. Anything at that point can add to it or just be amazingly delicious in the moment, it's not down to one particular sex act or move, though to be restrained physically in the height of it is a whole different level of intense I adore. |
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By *essaMayWoman 38 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
"fantastic.
It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "
For me when there is complete synergy, words become unspoken, distractions become muted or irrelevant, empathy and every thought, touch become one.
Unfortunately it is a rarity  |
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By *orthern StarsCouple 38 weeks ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
That 'look'. The unsaid words but you both know what is being said between you.
Or in a club, the moment when you're totally in the zone and lost in orgasms with strangers.
Different scenarios for me so no straight answer I'm afraid.
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Probably inhibition, when you can both do what you like, say what you like, act how you want and there be no thought of what just happened the next day. Sex can be either rudimentary, performative or lost in skin. I don't think the amount of time is necessarily a factor as some quick fucking can be pretty intense, longer stints you can obviously do more and get a little more into each other. |
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By *eli OP Woman 38 weeks ago
Where would you like me? |
"Why did this remind me of the neighbours theme tune??
See this is what happens to me during sex... My brain doesn't switch off  "
I had to Google the theme tune... I get it now. 
Never ever switches off? |
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"Why did this remind me of the neighbours theme tune??
See this is what happens to me during sex... My brain doesn't switch off
I had to Google the theme tune... I get it now.
Never ever switches off?"
Always on at the most inappropriate time |
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"Um. It's something in the connection. That feedback loop is where the best sex lives "
Yes, I think so too. Sometimes, even with people you've had sex with before, something just lifts the whole occasion to another level. |
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The person and mutual sexual interests.
Some kind of connection, but not necessary feelings or love.
Physical compatibility helps, but sometimes doesn't matter.
Right time, right person, pushing the right buttons.
Some attraction needed, but too much can ruin the atmosphere.
If one person thinks the other is out of their league, then they will place the other one's needs higher than theirs.
Both need to be on the same level more or less.
Does it make sense?
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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A real connection with the other person
I can honestly say I loved my last partner, and our connection was better then any other relationship
And because of that, our vanilla sex was better than everything else, because we really connected
Having loads of sex with people I barely knew or cared about was great in my 20s. But it soon gets boring |
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By *ddie1966Man 38 weeks ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
Sex is good ( well, mostly).
But sex become fantastic when passion is introduced. A connection is made and the ability to confide in each other what you really.... no, really, really want and can give each other.
That's when sex becomes amazing.
But again... that's just my opinion. |
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I know sex is going to be fantastic if,
we feel nervous enough to confess we are nervous,
we feel attracted enough to enjoy the anticipation,
we feel desired enough to lose any inhibition,
and we relax our tongues enough to have a long-lasting first kiss. |
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It’s a perfect storm.
A partner who you trust to take you on that journey. And neither of you know.
Physically are you well, comfortable. Not hungry, just eaten….( It’s a thing for me)
And then it’s a touch, a kiss, a nibble, a scratch, hair pull….. an indefinable thing.
There’s a moment where you intake of breath, twitch, clench, shiver and grin from ear to ear |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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For me, when there's that insane mutual lust, you are both ripping eachothers clothes off in a rush, you're trying to go down on her while she pushes you to the bed because she wants to taste you.
You just manovure eachothers bodies around and she does everything to try and stop you slipping out when she changes position, like she wants you in her at all times, because that's where you belong.
It's not just the sex for me, it's that strong lusty connection, her telling you how much she needs you inside her when you can't be together.
It's the whole psychology. |
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By *emidemiWoman 38 weeks ago
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For me it’s that moment when you can stop and have a giggle at something. Maybe you both go in the same direction for a kiss and bump noses, or you notice your lipstick has somehow smudged up to their forehead (  ).
You have a quick little laugh at it, move on and get back to it. It just shows that you’re comfortable together, and that’s the best part. |
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By *eli OP Woman 38 weeks ago
Where would you like me? |
"Sorry _eli i broke another _elithread with my honesty ffs "
I don't think you did, don't worry. Emotion is great for intensifying sex, I don't think that ship has necessarily sailed for you. You can find it rather unexpectedly. I hope you do. |
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"fantastic.
It could be a mood, a move; what really does it/works for you? "
Definitely mood but when both had drink not d*unk and inhibitions on the floor some wild stuff can be amazing to point exhaustion |
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Well, it used to be a powerful mental image of page 63 of the London A-Z (colour version only. Doesn't work in black and white).
The enlarged central London zones, in particular Farringdon Road heading north-west in a slightly heavy, bendy cock manner to a fountainous cum explosion (all involved parties) at the top left corner, around King's Cross.
Never understood why. It was just good.
Failing that, the bits in this vid where they get all golden-galactico life creating smiley-happy orgasmo-lords.
Touch, and kissing of necks too.
That works uber-yum.
Never farts.
You're welcome xx
https://youtu.be/lrKZNqIR2U0?si=0N838MOfZEl-iRdL |
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"When you can totally relax, have fun and not try. The sensuality, the lust, the longing is just there. You’re in tune with each other but you don’t take it so seriously. You enjoy each other. Their body is your playground."
Exactly this - couldn't put it better. |
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