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By *averi OP Man
over a year ago
Swindon to bristol |
There are some really lovely ladies on this site who even in a rejection note are polite and pleasant. However it seems to me that more and more are becomming aggressive and unpleasant...you can even see it on their profiles.
I'm sure this is as a result of dumbass men wasting time and themselves being crude and rude.
Its a shame....I just hope we 'good' guys are not all tarred with the same brush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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let's not blame only the single guys, we have received a message from a couple seeking a female and messaging as if they were talking only to the female, when we replied that we are a couple we received no reply, but 5 days later got the same message.  |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
clacton on sea |
horse's for course's as they say matey, each and every combination of swinger suffers from mail problems of one kind or the other. All any of us can do is ignore those who offend us and press on with those with whom we have some kind of affinity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am glad to say, we don't get any mails that offend us Touvak......we might get mails that don't really match our profile, but they are never nasty mails.
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confused now lol
is it mails or males ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my profile, i think i come over as rude in it, ive even written an appology at the end lol
But yeah i get so many demanding mail and guys who get rude and stroppy when i not meet them you have to come over as a little assertive to get over what you want
And even then i still get messages from men ive stated im not looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some really lovely ladies on this site who even in a rejection note are polite and pleasant. However it seems to me that more and more are becomming aggressive and unpleasant...you can even see it on their profiles.
I'm sure this is as a result of dumbass men wasting time and themselves being crude and rude.
Its a shame....I just hope we 'good' guys are not all tarred with the same brush. "
never judge a person by they profile
ive been told my profile is abit
scary cause its upfront an str8t
2 the point..but it dont make me a bad
person..infact anyone who knows me will
tell u im realy nice if u get 2 know me
so never judge a book by the cover
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate my profile, i think i come over as rude in it, ive even written an appology at the end lol
But yeah i get so many demanding mail and guys who get rude and stroppy when i not meet them you have to come over as a little assertive to get over what you want
And even then i still get messages from men ive stated im not looking for "
naughtynymphos never apologise 4
being yaself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well all my profile says in big capital letters is I'm not meeting only here to chat on the forums - I have two pictures on there, nothing rude, just me in jeans and still the mail arrives asking for all sorts - so it really really doesn't matter to some what is or is not written there, or how sexy your pics are they will still mail you cause you are female lol .........................x x |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
I think it's such a shame that people are pushed to the point where they actively dislike their own profile.
I read so many that have so much antipathy in them that there's little to actually use as a basis for a non cut + paste message. Which means that in order to reduce the amount of c+p merchants/non-readers/silhouettes etc, people are also reducing the messages that they might like.
Now, I'm not criticising them for this - I have no idea how frustrating it must be to have dozens of useless messages every time you log in - but I'd much rather be part of a site where everybody could personalise their profile in a way that accentuated the positive.
I have no idea how that could be achieved, short of an outgoing message limit. If I only had 10 messages a day I might be more selective about who I sent my default message to... |
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