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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You probably think this thread is about you....
Confidence or arrogance?
I've an acquaintance who is forever telling me how great she is, that whatever she wears, she looks fantastic in etc and I find it really annoying.
I've also come across a person on fab who 90% of the time will say the same.
can people really be that self assured and have such a high opinion of themselves without coming across as horribly arrogant?
i know I have described myself as sexy and attractive but is there a difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I look at it like this if you don't think your a good looker then why would you think somebody else would find you good looking the same goes for love you can't expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself. Wright or wrong thats the way it is. |
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sexy is it always about physical appearance ?
your friend sounds insecure to me. very attractive people who rely a lot on how they look learn a lesson later in life. when their looks fade and they start to wrinkle and sag.  |
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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago
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"sexy is it always about physical appearance ?
your friend sounds insecure to me. very attractive people who rely a lot on how they look learn a lesson later in life. when their looks fade and they start to wrinkle and sag. "
So true there are some very attractive ppl with nasty natures and when the looks have gone they have niether looks or a nice personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well you dont sound much different to your friend though. 
i like confident people who like themselves, dont like arrogant people unless they are arrogant in a funny way not taking themselves too seriously.
I find people with low self esteem who are needy and keep moaning about the way they look just as anoying as arrogant people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can't stand arrogance, I don't realy give a dam how people think I look, I know I look as rough as a bears arse  "
you have a nice smile and you look good in that hat though. |
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I'm confident in my appearance but with a healthy awareness that I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that I'm no spring chicken and not built like a supermodel. Having said that many men prefer a little extra weight and a mature woman.
But I do find that some women find me intimidating/threatening since I have learnt that you can't judge who will be attracted by their looks so if I think a guy is fit I will go for it - which is viewed as arrogance by some women since they think I'm playing out of my league. They are even more put out if/when I succeed!
And since I don't take a no as a personal insult I can remain flirty/chatty/friendly with the ones who turn me down. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well you dont sound much different to your friend though.
i like confident people who like themselves, dont like arrogant people unless they are arrogant in a funny way not taking themselves too seriously.
I find people with low self esteem who are needy and keep moaning about the way they look just as anoying as arrogant people.
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I beg to differ on that one! I would never tell anybody how great how I am, how great I look. I describe myself as sexy and attractive because that is how other people have described me. I wouldn't dream of ever saying how fantastic I am because I know that I'm most definitely not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I describe myself as sexy and attractive because that is how other people have described me."
In that case I am stunning, gorgeous and drop dead sexy with a body to die for.
Blokes will say anything if they think it'll get them a shag.
I'm not unattractive but I'm most definitely not stunning, and the only way anyone is dying from my body is if I fall on them or accidentally suffocate them!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I describe myself as sexy and attractive because that is how other people have described me.
In that case I am stunning, gorgeous and drop dead sexy with a body to die for.
Blokes will say anything if they think it'll get them a shag.
I'm not unattractive but I'm most definitely not stunning, and the only way anyone is dying from my body is if I fall on them or accidentally suffocate them!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im happy with how I look and am body confident. I walk tall!
I am also aware that some guys like women with more padding than I have so each to their own.
I like me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I describe myself as sexy and attractive because that is how other people have described me.
In that case I am stunning, gorgeous and drop dead sexy with a body to die for.
Blokes will say anything if they think it'll get them a shag.
I'm not unattractive but I'm most definitely not stunning, and the only way anyone is dying from my body is if I fall on them or accidentally suffocate them!
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I never said it was men on here who had described me that way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I describe myself as sexy and attractive because that is how other people have described me.
In that case I am stunning, gorgeous and drop dead sexy with a body to die for.
Blokes will say anything if they think it'll get them a shag.
I'm not unattractive but I'm most definitely not stunning, and the only way anyone is dying from my body is if I fall on them or accidentally suffocate them!
I never said it was men on here who had described me that way!"
I never said it was just men on here that will say anything to get a shag! |
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