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Men want to be loved....
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Men want to be pleasures don't they? "
Im just interested away from swinging what each gender prefers? I know as a woman( last time i looked) i love to be wanted...wondered if guys felt the same or prefer to be loved?
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't know if I want to be wanted but I like to be appreciated from time to time.
Really well said, being appreciated means a lot to me but of course being wanted is a nice feeling too!"
Appreciated is nice....but id prefer wanted ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the men I've known just want an easy life. For most that has included an expectation that a woman organise everything and wait on them.
I'm not saying all men are like that, but that's been my experience so far. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Most of the men I've known just want an easy life. For most that has included an expectation that a woman organise everything and wait on them.
I'm not saying all men are like that, but that's been my experience so far."
I have found the former to be untrue and the latter as i like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most 
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring  |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring "
lmao....love the last bit as an after thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring "
This rings discouragingly true.
Random observation:
The more comments from men I read on here (and a few other anonymous internet) sites, the less I feel I want to shag any man.
I may just go and join a convent. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring
This rings discouragingly true.
Random observation:
The more comments from men I read on here (and a few other anonymous internet) sites, the less I feel I want to shag any man.
I may just go and join a convent."
would they have ya? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring
This rings discouragingly true.
Random observation:
The more comments from men I read on here (and a few other anonymous internet) sites, the less I feel I want to shag any man.
I may just go and join a convent.would they have ya?"
I'll let you know. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Only a woman would even have thought of posing the question so that should tell you much - most men just aren't as emotionaly needy for either... men are more physically demanding ie. we dont't care how you feel about us as long as you give it up - a pity fuck will do for most
Not me tho, I'm sensetive, respectful and caring
This rings discouragingly true.
Random observation:
The more comments from men I read on here (and a few other anonymous internet) sites, the less I feel I want to shag any man.
I may just go and join a convent.would they have ya?
I'll let you know."
sneak me a winple out and il be eternally grateful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't anyone be both loved and wanted?
Or it only ever going to be an either/or?if you had to choose one..."
To be loved. Even if it were just for one moment. A moment of pure, honest love between two human beings. That stays with you forever.
Everyone can want or be wanted - not everyone can love or be loved. |
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Can't anyone be both loved and wanted?
Or it only ever going to be an either/or?if you had to choose one...
To be loved. Even if it were just for one moment. A moment of pure, honest love between two human beings. That stays with you forever.
Everyone can want or be wanted - not everyone can love or be loved. "
Succinctly put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to be loved and that's an everyday thing for most people in relationships, wanted seems the wrong word to me, sometimes is nice to be desired or lusted after, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't anyone be both loved and wanted?
Or it only ever going to be an either/or?if you had to choose one...
To be loved. Even if it were just for one moment. A moment of pure, honest love between two human beings. That stays with you forever.
Everyone can want or be wanted - not everyone can love or be loved. "
This for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This question is a tough one for me. As I feel that to be wanted by my partner is a sign of being loved. I guess in the past not having sex with my ex was a form of rejection, and made me feel unloved. 
But now all great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being loved is necessary on many levels, I would be miserable without it
But being wanted fro the pleasure that I can give for the passion that burns within. To satiate a partners needs, perhaps an ego issue, is almost as important as being loved. Not being wanted would make me miserable too.
It is so good to be wanted so bad that you are used up to the point of exhaustion on a regular basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting that people have focused on the men wanting love part - I'm more interested in the women prefer to feel wanted part. I kind of disagree with that.
I don't think we are radically different in terms of wants and needs whether we have dangly bits up top or down below.
A lot of how people feel is defined by their personality and coloured by their experiences - so this by no means applies to all.
I think, in very general terms, both men and women want to feel love and the security and companionship that comes with that.
As for priorities, I'd say in a 'normal' (I hate that word) relationship I'd say you start off by wanting that person, then loving and wanting them.
On a site such as this - it's the want that is the driving force for both sexes in the vast majority of cases (though I am aware love does flower here).
It feels great to be loved (and secure in that knowledge) and equally, it feels nice to be wanted (so I'm told!).
I think in terms of men and women on here, being "wanted" comes at the top of a pretty steep sliding scale.
Starting at the top with Wanted - Liked - Appreciated - Noticed - Tolerated - Disliked and then Ignored.
My guess is though, men and women & couples would have a very different opinion as to which of these groupings they fit in.
Nice question though to start the grey matter working.
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Dunno about the love thing really, I think it makes me suspicious 
