You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?
Or just not bother after the first?
I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.
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over a year ago
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"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?
Or just not bother after the first?
I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.
Thanks fabbers x"
If they ask me to I'll leave one. Not bothered if they leave me one. I won't leave one every time we meet, don't see the point. |
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"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?
Or just not bother after the first?
I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.
Thanks fabbers x
If they ask me to I'll leave one. Not bothered if they leave me one. I won't leave one every time we meet, don't see the point. "
Yeah I’ll leave one if they really want one but only ever a social one no matter if anything else happened. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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The whole point of verifications is to confirm that the person is real.
Writing something nice and memorable about them to inform others has become kind of secondary but repeat verifications are more than a little bit lamp post pissy/bragging in my opinion.
The person is still real, do others need to know that you met again?
We certainly don’t need to know who did what to whom and with what! |
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I look for someone who has recent veri rather than the number. Especially if it's from same person time and time again. That's pointless. For me, a veri summary is more useful in proving someone is genuine and active instead of a fake or attention seeking only. |
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"The whole point of verifications is to confirm that the person is real.
Writing something nice and memorable about them to inform others has become kind of secondary but repeat verifications are more than a little bit lamp post pissy/bragging in my opinion.
The person is still real, do others need to know that you met again?
We certainly don’t need to know who did what to whom and with what! "
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I often do it as a momento for the person (I'm aware it might be displayed, but it's about them not me). So yes, sometimes I'll leave multiple verifications.
Depends on what the other person wants, too. |
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"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.
It's like fabadvisor  "
you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa  |
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"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.
It's like fabadvisor you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa "
Hold on and I'll do you a review |
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"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.
It's like fabadvisor you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa
Hold on and I'll do you a review "
not what I ment, but I'll take it lol |
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"Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home!  "
Yeah. Leaving a verification and displaying a verification are different things |
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"Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home!
Yeah. Leaving a verification and displaying a verification are different things"
Exactly - it’s just personal choice. I’d prefer to see someone’s veris so I can see if we’re on the same page - but I don’t display all mine x |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?
Or just not bother after the first?
I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.
Thanks fabbers x"
Entirely up to you.
It's your profile (and theirs of course).
Some care. Others don't. Some will be offended if you don't leave a veri after each and every shag. Others see it as lamp post pissing and staking a claim/warning others off.
As some don't read the words on profiles so won't notice they're from the same person/people, they might see a high number of veris in the summary and be put off.
We'd maybe leave repeat social veris. But play ones? No need at all. We've certainly never shown all the play ones and not leaving veris has never affected our lives on here or upset people we've met.
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