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When someone really annoys you what do you do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.
I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes the best thing you can do is say nothing at all. You don't need to justify who you are to people who have already decided their version of you. Let it go and focus on the people who truely matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I worked in that kind of environment, I couldn’t be arsed with getting involved in that kinda nonsense. I’d get my head down, so the work, ignore the cretinous attitudes of others. Be the bigger person, by not giving them the audience for their garbage.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore but if doesn’t end go to HR and make a formal complaint of bullying.
In this market it’s a good time to make a change if your employer doesn’t support you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just try to limit contact. If I have to talk to them, then it's about work related stuff only and if it veers off, I just give short answers in an attempt to kill the conversation. Harsh? Maybe"
I do this with the bunch of two faced cunts I have to deal with.
I don't even attempt to smile at them anymore.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.
I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do?"
Tell them they're being annoying, and how. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Wife has various colleagues at work who don't like her. It's obvious from their behaviour towards her. She comes home Spitting tar and feathers because of it.
I tell her to breathe, and imagine them constipated on the toilet and then always act friendly, just smile and wave. Really wind them up properly.. what do you do?
Tell them they're being annoying, and how."
The calm, even, logical approach is infuriating to Muppets, and (if there's a genuine misunderstanding), gives a chance of sorting it out on the spot. |
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I just ignore it and don't let them take up any space in my mind. They aren't worth it.
If it gets to the point it's actually harassment or bullying, then report it to HR as you probably aren't the only person on the end of it. |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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At work: I'll ignore such behaviour unless it effects the business mission; in which case, I'd find the best way to address it through official routes and strategies. After all, we're at work to ensure that the business succeeds.
Amongst close family: I'll try to found out why people are treating me in such a way and then discuss what can be done to address the situation.
Another other situation: I'd just let it go. |
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