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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply. |
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I wouldn't worry about being naughty. Just say something worth saying. Ask questions you are genuinely interested to find out the answer to. Just chat. It doesn't seem much different to what you might say to somebody you get introduced to in your social life. |
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Don’t think too much into it. It’s mainly luck as to if it even gets opened. Most women are getting messages at a rate it’s basically pointless messaging anyone that’s not “online now” because it’ll get buried
Attach pics, that’s the main focus. Then just don’t be a dick/weirdo and put more effort in than “hi” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply. "
Read the profile. Be yourself and be respectful. If it's a no, pick yourself up and move on  |
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"I find the who intro message such a hard one to figure out. Men need to respectful with a just a little naughty, respectful but not vanilla, funny and charming without being corny or Cheesy. Tone is so hard to convey in a message so it's hard to show you are joking around. And men need to be original, so don't dare copy and paste a message. But ultimately if you don't attach a face pic, forget about a reply. "
I have never in all my ten years here, got a message from a man that said something along the lines of 'hi Topsy, my name is (....) I've read your profile and I'd really like to know more. I've attached my face pic'.
I'd would reply to messages like that every time but instead I get the misogynistic, self entitled drivel that falls into most inboxes. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Doesn't have to be naughty, cheeky or funny for me.
Although, if you have my kind of humour I'm more likely to respond. But, if I like the face-or torso sometimes-a simple hi there, how you doing will suffice. |
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see what happens. Or, ignore Mr, shower me in compliments, tell me that your gonna be the best I've ever had. 