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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, weekend before Easter I contracted Covid and was off the whole week from work, over this period I had a major reflection of my life as it currently stands and realised I was actually quite lonely, hence my profile update, seeing what comes of it, who knows.
So my question is this, at what point in your life did you realise that something wasn't right or missing totally? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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When I was 30 and left a toxic relationship, I realised I didn’t recognise myself anymore - my confidence left me completely and I was broken for a while.
I took some time out and focused on myself for 2yrs, I didn’t date anyone seriously and I just filled my time with exercise, good friends, new hobbies and building my dance business in time the old me came back.
Now I set goals each year that I want to achieve and when I feel I’m going off track or feeling low I remind myself why I set them, they help me to focus xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My brain's totally screwed atm. Realisations during the pandemic. I future operation which some things need to be sorted beforehand. I'm not coping tbh"
sorry to hear that, i think a lot of people have considered things over covid.. good luck with op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 months before I got the courage to end my marriage.
your brave
5 years for me... 1st and 2nd"
Tbh I think I knew for years, but when I finally knew there was no going back it was 3 months to have “that” conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 months before I got the courage to end my marriage.
your brave
5 years for me... 1st and 2nd
Tbh I think I knew for years, but when I finally knew there was no going back it was 3 months to have “that” conversation "
i just watch them leave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Around january 2021 when i looked back at all id lost the previous year 3 family members dead an old friends suicide and my oldest friend dead too something major had happened to one of the offspring and i was starting to see id never see the love of my life again and i had no control over any of it il admit i wanted the exit but in the end my obsession with loyalty my kids some friends fomo and being able to drive my shoulders into people dragged me out of my pit i was a broken man plagued by nightmares but now im stronger id only ever experienced true grief once as a child is my only excuse emotion was new to me so didnt know how to handle it now i see all i can do is be there for them who need me thats all any man can do and if im needed i will be there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 months before I got the courage to end my marriage.
your brave
5 years for me... 1st and 2nd
Tbh I think I knew for years, but when I finally knew there was no going back it was 3 months to have “that” conversation
i just watch them leave! "
yeah. thinking about it now i should of tried harder.. i was a total dick. words for a 30yr old me now i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The day I lost my husband. I’m not the same person I once was so sorry x
Big love to you, just read your post above x "
im alright now just a bit nuts boobs help  |
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"The day I lost my husband. I’m not the same person I once was so sorry x
Big love to you, just read your post above x im alright now just a bit nuts boobs help "
Aren’t we all? Best way to be
Ah I think I can help   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The day I lost my husband. I’m not the same person I once was so sorry x
Big love to you, just read your post above x im alright now just a bit nuts boobs help
Aren’t we all? Best way to be
Ah I think I can help "
oh you definitely do   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/22 21:31:44]"
I'm sorry for everyone has posted, being currently very emotional over the slightest thing I really truly feel all your pain and regrets...but I also hope you all feel a sense of release and maybe renewal from opening up
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so sorry to read some of these posts, my heart goes out to you. I hope you all overcome these things and it makes you stronger people, remember....memories last forever but unfortunately , we don't , and for those struggling at any time, my message box is always open if you need to talk, i will remove all restrictions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 months before I got the courage to end my marriage.
Best of luck. I did it and was so much happier as a single mum."
As a single parent it is tough at times, but I’m definitely living my best life now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just been reading a few of these posts on here. I feel you people. Love you all as you are. We all just need a lil bit of love ayy?
Well for me, I tend to meditate daily (seasoned veteran so to speak of the phenomenon) and ebb & flow with each moment as it comes. I don't really have solid plans or things I want to achieve, but I do have some ideas about things I'd love to do if the opportunities arise.
I feel the smoothest way to live you're life is, living in the moment and attending to things as they happen. No one knows what's going to happen 2 seconds from now, so no one really has all the answers.. but one thing we can do is be attentive to each moment that occurs and live in the moment, otherwise we lose that moment and can't get it back again. |
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but battle through..it's hard at times..