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I don’t tend to ask people who they vote for. More exciting things to talk about. However, if they have very extreme views (either way) it’s very unlikely as those types will certainly let you know and they wouldn’t be for me. |
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We like drama free Fun and plenty of laughs .we don’t get into politics and religion and if someone started preaching on and on then chances are we wouldn’t meet them again as their are not our kind of people.
To answer your question yes we would as long as they didn’t start preaching on about it  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you struggle?? The only reason it would cause a problem is if someone made a big deal of it. It wouldn't occur to me to ask what their political leanings were. "
Thinking about it, maybe I’d probably compromise my views for a really attractive woman/couple and damn good shag (I know, typical bloke  ) |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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I was with my ex for almost 30 years and we never discussed politics. We didn't even know how each other voted. We could have been polar opposites for all I know, and care. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to be able to. Now, not so much. They could be everything I ever wanted and still  not a chance. Utterly repulsive."
Mhmmmm…I wonder if you have the same views as me… |
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So am I missing a trick here - I've not noticed the "political alignment" option on people's profile & the last thing I'm going to discuss when messaging/Chatting to a potential bed fellow is politics!
I'm surprised people even care.... |
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"So am I missing a trick here - I've not noticed the "political alignment" option on people's profile & the last thing I'm going to discuss when messaging/Chatting to a potential bed fellow is politics!
I'm surprised people even care...."
Politics is serious business! |
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"So am I missing a trick here - I've not noticed the "political alignment" option on people's profile & the last thing I'm going to discuss when messaging/Chatting to a potential bed fellow is politics!
I'm surprised people even care...."
It tends to come up, directly or indirectly. I've never asked anyone how they vote or their political party. I've never said so in this kind of context (except with very good friends - we discuss all sorts, and the friendship was established before). Attitudes and values come through in conversation, or at least the private conversations I have. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So am I missing a trick here - I've not noticed the "political alignment" option on people's profile & the last thing I'm going to discuss when messaging/Chatting to a potential bed fellow is politics!
I'm surprised people even care....
It tends to come up, directly or indirectly. I've never asked anyone how they vote or their political party. I've never said so in this kind of context (except with very good friends - we discuss all sorts, and the friendship was established before). Attitudes and values come through in conversation, or at least the private conversations I have."
That’s what I mean, really. You can always tell… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could you have sex with someone who held completely opposite views to you? So, a Corbynista with Johnsonite? Or vice versa? Think I’d struggle…  "
I’m a Tory  |
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I don't see the problem.
I'm friendly with lots of people that have different opinions to me. I can't see why I would refuse to enjoy their company just because we disagree on who should be running the country.
It's perfectly possible to disagree with someone without having to hate them. |
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"I don’t tend to ask people who they vote for. More exciting things to talk about. However, if they have very extreme views (either way) it’s very unlikely as those types will certainly let you know and they wouldn’t be for me. "
100% this. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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As long as they don’t preach or force their political views on us then I don’t really care. We are grown ups and can deal with friends and family who have polar opposite political views to us. |
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By *iltomMan
over a year ago
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""Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day! - Austin Powers, attempting to lose arousal "
Ooooooohhhhhhh. Maggie. I can honestly say I was probably the only Irish boy with her picture on my bedroom wall. Came buckets over her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I’m looking for connections and partners rather than fuck buddies, I would absolutely not sleep with someone that was completely opposite to me politically. But tbh my main thing is that they’re not a racist, so wouldn’t sleep with a person on the left that was also racist.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like intelligent conversation with my sexual partners. It’s a lovely experience to have a rant about how bojo is a joke yo. I get thoroughly turned on when discovering I’ve met a likeminded person. Political discourse has lead to sexual intercourse several times for me  |
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"I like intelligent conversation with my sexual partners. It’s a lovely experience to have a rant about how bojo is a joke yo. I get thoroughly turned on when discovering I’ve met a likeminded person. Political discourse has lead to sexual intercourse several times for me "
If only you didnt live so far away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got asked by a lass while she was sucking me off if was a Conservative as she hated the commies, first time I ever said yes to that question 
Did you find out why she hated " the commies"?"
Turns out her dad was an MP with a very right wing agenda and friends who dressed up like the SS at sex parties! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics). |
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"Got asked by a lass while she was sucking me off if was a Conservative as she hated the commies, first time I ever said yes to that question
Did you find out why she hated " the commies"?
Turns out her dad was an MP with a very right wing agenda and friends who dressed up like the SS at sex parties!"
Wow! |
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics). "
Agreed, it is |
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics). "
Yup, it's values, not a pissing contest between red, blue, or whatever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics). "
Radical. To say that racism isn’t a left vs right issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they voted for this shower of shit I probably could as long as they didn’t hang on about it. If they were far right I couldn’t and in all honestly I don’t think they’d want to sleep with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they voted for this shower of shit I probably could as long as they didn’t hang on about it. If they were far right I couldn’t and in all honestly I don’t think they’d want to sleep with me."
Bang on about it ** |
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics).
Radical. To say that racism isn’t a left vs right issue "
For me I think it's more, the broad strokes aren't enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics).
Radical. To say that racism isn’t a left vs right issue
For me I think it's more, the broad strokes aren't enough. "
I agree. Look, I think it is more about the specific political opinions of an individual. But equally I don’t think there’s a single conservative voter, from the last election at least, that would have anything near the same political beliefs as me. Without oversimplifying. I am certain. You know? |
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"Please please please stop simplifying politics down to just who the dickhead in charge of the country is, that's part of the problem why politics is in the mess it is in.
Politics is everywhere, it is hard to find things in life that don't factor in to politics in some way.
Racism, sexism, homo and trans phobias are political, I'd not have any interest in people who have those outlooks on life so would not have interest in them outside of maybe a discussion to understand why they feel that way and try to enlighten them to my own views.
I don't care if person x voted for any particular party, I'm more interested in why they did and their views on certain other topics (which will have ties to politics).
Radical. To say that racism isn’t a left vs right issue
For me I think it's more, the broad strokes aren't enough.
I agree. Look, I think it is more about the specific political opinions of an individual. But equally I don’t think there’s a single conservative voter, from the last election at least, that would have anything near the same political beliefs as me. Without oversimplifying. I am certain. You know?"
Oh I absolutely agree. Although I'd say "values" rather than political beliefs.
Political beliefs makes it sound like red blue tribalism. For me it's much more about - who gets to be treated as human, do we help the suffering, do we provide a safety net, do we give a shit about the environment.
There comes a point beyond "well, we're all different, you do you" - where I realise that there's just not any point and I don't want that anywhere near me. It's not a game to me. |
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"Could you have sex with someone who held completely opposite views to you? So, a Corbynista with Johnsonite? Or vice versa? Think I’d struggle… "
Discussing politics with/at/during a Fab meet would not be the top of my agenda!  . And I can’t imagine it would be many others either!
Strange question OP  |
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"As long as they don’t preach or force their political views on us then I don’t really care. We are grown ups and can deal with friends and family who have polar opposite political views to us."
Exactly. So do I. I find these posts extremely childish and also a good filter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I’d fuck a Tory in their eye socket 
Would that make your cock a sight for sore eyes then?
You’re trying to get in my undies aren’t you "
Who isn't, Rex? Who isn't |
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"Could you have sex with someone who held completely opposite views to you? So, a Corbynista with Johnsonite? Or vice versa? Think I’d struggle…
I’m a Tory "
Wow - & I thought this thread was purely a left wing echo chamber! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk of Politics makes my dick soft, i couldnt give 2 shits who someone supports aslong as its not preached.
politics are personal that should be respected only DICKS preach.  |
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I generally go off the principle your either a dick or your not a dick. And Dickishness spans the political spectrum.
I have freinds with different political veiws to me. But I know someone who has very similar views to me except to him everyone of any different political opinion is basically a kin to Adolf Hitler. Unlike that guy I'm happy to have political diversity. I'd much rather be with someone of a different political outlook who wasn't a dick than someone who shares my politics and is a dick. |
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