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Yes, there are times of the month when I have zero interest in men or having sex, then there are others when I can't get enough.
Currently not on any birth control, that's always caused me to have even less interest. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, definitely. I think that's in part because of a medical condition that causes me normally to have a high level of testosterone. Day to day (assuming I'm in a good mental place) my libido is high. During ovulation it's a nightmare, I could happily flirt with any man. Once my period strikes, I'm definitely more aware of my female hormones to put it politely.  |
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"As in sometimes I feel super sociable and sexy, others I feel not so much. Wondered if this was a general lady/hormone thing  "
Isn't that just a general person thing? How we feel is changeable. It's human |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it definitely does. The week of is out for obvious reasons. The week before I'm irritable/emotional so really not interested.
That leaves a two week window of opportunity where one of those weeks I'm more interested than the other week. |
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Nope, I'm the same all month round. I want it always! But not when I'm on. That's just wrong in my book. No don't want to start an argument, but that's private for only me, the gyne or nurse to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes!
The only time I want sex is when my period is about to start (a good sign that it’ll be here in a day or so) which equally means that that’s exactly when I can’t have sex! Shit happens  |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
Yes definitely. At some stages of my monthly cycle I would never consider meeting as my hormones make me feel, fat, grouchy, unattractive and vulnerable. I wouldn't want to meet anyone when I'm feeling that way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes!
The only time I want sex is when my period is about to start (a good sign that it’ll be here in a day or so) which equally means that that’s exactly when I can’t have sex! Shit happens "
That's your body trying underhanded methods to get you pregnant !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes!
The only time I want sex is when my period is about to start (a good sign that it’ll be here in a day or so) which equally means that that’s exactly when I can’t have sex! Shit happens
That's your body trying underhanded methods to get you pregnant !!"
I know!!! Well it can fuck off
Although I’m not horny around ovulation so my body is a bit behind with it’s timing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Glad it's not just me! Definitely effects our meets, even timetabling club visits according to my cycle  I just let him take over the fab account when I go into my cave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, definitely. I think that's in part because of a medical condition that causes me normally to have a high level of testosterone. Day to day (assuming I'm in a good mental place) my libido is high. During ovulation it's a nightmare, I could happily flirt with any man. Once my period strikes, I'm definitely more aware of my female hormones to put it politely. "
Sluteeee!
My testosterone is basically null/zilch… but somehow, I still love sex and having sex. Which is surprising!
Now do I have a high sex drive and desire??…
no. But I turn on easily with the right guy and would happily have sex daily |
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Yes definitely
One minute I'm horny as fuck, next day I can feel like I never want sex again
It makes fab a rollercoaster and why I very rarely arrange meets in advance, I'm a meet now kind of girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Glad it's not just me! Definitely effects our meets, even timetabling club visits according to my cycle I just let him take over the fab account when I go into my cave "
Ah now we have our first club event this Saturday and she's tried to ensure the decorators were kept at bay by taking the pill. She forgot on both Wednesday and Thursday so in came Picasso  . This is why she had the coil as she always forgets medication.
Anywhos she is considering starting again on double pills tomorrow - I'm actually not keen on her doing that - would rather have a purely social on Saturday than screw up her insides for ages.
Advice please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Glad it's not just me! Definitely effects our meets, even timetabling club visits according to my cycle I just let him take over the fab account when I go into my cave
Ah now we have our first club event this Saturday and she's tried to ensure the decorators were kept at bay by taking the pill. She forgot on both Wednesday and Thursday so in came Picasso . This is why she had the coil as she always forgets medication.
Anywhos she is considering starting again on double pills tomorrow - I'm actually not keen on her doing that - would rather have a purely social on Saturday than screw up her insides for ages.
Advice please "
It won't mess up her insides at all, just not sure it would stop a period mid-flow  ... we're are you guys going? |
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"Glad it's not just me! Definitely effects our meets, even timetabling club visits according to my cycle I just let him take over the fab account when I go into my cave
Ah now we have our first club event this Saturday and she's tried to ensure the decorators were kept at bay by taking the pill. She forgot on both Wednesday and Thursday so in came Picasso . This is why she had the coil as she always forgets medication.
Anywhos she is considering starting again on double pills tomorrow - I'm actually not keen on her doing that - would rather have a purely social on Saturday than screw up her insides for ages.
Advice please "
Definitely won't stop a period that's already started, unfortunately. |
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"Glad it's not just me! Definitely effects our meets, even timetabling club visits according to my cycle I just let him take over the fab account when I go into my cave
Ah now we have our first club event this Saturday and she's tried to ensure the decorators were kept at bay by taking the pill. She forgot on both Wednesday and Thursday so in came Picasso . This is why she had the coil as she always forgets medication.
Anywhos she is considering starting again on double pills tomorrow - I'm actually not keen on her doing that - would rather have a purely social on Saturday than screw up her insides for ages.
Advice please "
When did she start and how long are her periods normally? Are they heavy/light? Taking double pills aren't going to stop it.
I usually write a week off for mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. When we first met last June she didn't really come on at all. Her sex life ramped up somewhat when we got together and she has progressively started having some bleeding.
It's not been that heavy really (my ex wife and my daughter practically bleed to death once a month so I know what that's like).
It started Friday and to date has only lasted 3 days ish. We are going to the old hellfire club on Saturday so unless the pills she took provokes an adverse reaction I'm fingers crossed all will be well.
If nothing else it's shifted her cycle a week earlier putting it on our with kids weekend instead of half of our with each other weekends - silver lining |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hrt is excellent !
They took me off it due to reaction with other meds 
Did they try anything else?
Gps are notoriously uninformed about HRT sadly "
No they didn't |
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