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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority? |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again"
But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No your not, I love to do oral and while my fb loves oral she definitely gets more turned on when I finger her , two fingers and she's putty in my hands lol  |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not a massive fan of fingering. Been with too many men who believe rough is always better."
I've had that. Feels like they're trying to clear out the drains or look for their watch!! But what of really accomplished fingering skills? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again
But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting."
she didnt gush or squirt but reached orgasm so quick. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"
Definitely agree...
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"I much prefer fingering to receiving oral, I'm not an oral fan at all."
nor I but it's surprising how many people are amazed at this and think I'm odd. A slow finger circling my clitoris now that's another story altogether  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again
But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting."
Same here love oral but then if i'm stood up and fingered just right i will gush.
So i like both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing beats both, i sucked and fingered a woman and mmmmmm she exploded. want to try it again
But its not just sticking fingers in. It's a great technique that gets me off, and I'm not referring to gushing or squirting.
Same here love oral but then if i'm stood up and fingered just right i will gush.
So i like both "
Greedy..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefer oral
to many men think the way to get a woman wet is to stick as many fingers up as possible and ram like made
i tend to tense up if guys try to finger me as so many have hurt me doing it in the past |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"i prefer oral
to many men think the way to get a woman wet is to stick as many fingers up as possible and ram like made
i tend to tense up if guys try to finger me as so many have hurt me doing it in the past"
Sorry you have had such bad experiences. I guess I've been lucky. Been with a lot who were talented. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to go with the flow 
It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.
A little practice makes perfect  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"
No I love it too.....a mixture of fingers and oral or both together is even hotter. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like to go with the flow
It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.
A little practice makes perfect "
And a lot of practice makes astonishing!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to go with the flow
It's all about finding the rhythm and tempo, whether it's oral or fingering, you know you're doing it right if you get the feedback.
A little practice makes perfect
And a lot of practice makes astonishing!!"
Oh I agree with you there |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like oral but not for too long. But i love fingers and the odd fist"
I've only done Fisting with one person. He takes his time and prepares well. And when he does OMFG!!!!! |
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I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!
It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*
Still preferable to rough fingering though |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!
It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*
Still preferable to rough fingering though "
Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I love it too.....a mixture of fingers and oral or both together is even hotter. [/quote
thats where am going, if you get someone who knows his job in pussy dept, with both tongue and finger you will go gaga |
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"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!
It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*
Still preferable to rough fingering though
Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!!"
 I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few guys we've been with seem to have the jack hammer approach to fingering, I always stop them and ask them to be more gentle its to be enjoyed not endured "
awful sensation 
Slow, deep fingering with a little oral help is amazing!  |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!
It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*
Still preferable to rough fingering though
Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!! I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me"
Now that would be a turn off for me. Beginning to feel for the guys here!! So many different preferences!! LOL |
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"I MUCH prefer oral. I've also endured the 'dynarod' approach to fingering - I do wish men would stop thinking porn films are a true reflection of what women like!
It's a bit harder to be hurt by a man's tongue, although not all men are accomplished at licking - some adopt the 'la la la' approach, just flicking relentlessly in one spot *sigh*
Still preferable to rough fingering though
Or they suck the clit so hard it makes the eyes water!! I love my clit being bitten, some dont bite hard enough cause they think they will hurt me
Now that would be a turn off for me. Beginning to feel for the guys here!! So many different preferences!! LOL "
I feel sorry for the guys too but it is all about comunication, if you don't like it (women of men) say so nicely, if you do like it say so very nicely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.
I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.
But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.
I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.
But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm "
I think you're right about the current obsession with gushing. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Fingering over oral gets my vote - having said that it does take a man to know what he is doing and "rough" is definitely not what is called for. It is technique and while some have it... some do not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?"
Im the same as you...dont mind a "little" oral but prefer fingers |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Lots of messages I receive proclaim expertise in oral skills. I do love receiving good oral but I find a man who is skilled at fingering gets me hotter than anything. Am I in a minority?
Im the same as you...dont mind a "little" oral but prefer fingers "
It is for that reason I am sceptical of profiles that put a lot of emphasis on good oral skills... I want sexy fun ... not a public speech |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold."
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing."
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears.... |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears.... "
My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....
My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!! "
Or huge ears |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....
My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!
Or huge ears "
Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....
My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!
Or huge ears
Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be. "
Balaclava.......isnt that just as bad as leaving your socks on?? |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I like a mixture of both, if a guy is licking me and I want fingers I'll ask, if I want more fingers I'll ask for that too, I think being responsive should give him some idea if he's doing what you like, if not...tell him, but I agree, some guys do go at it like they're digging for gold.
I have no problem voicing my needs and wants but have found that some guys get so in to oral they forget what their fingers are meant to be doing.
Or maybe they gone deaf with thighs squashing their ears....
My thighs aren't that big, unless he has a huge head!!
Or huge ears
Then deafness wouldn't be their problem, but wearing a balaclava might be.
Balaclava.......isnt that just as bad as leaving your socks on?? "
No. It's the Northern equivalent of a Gimp mask!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like oral and fingering and having a hubby who is very good at both and manages to hit the right spot every time makes me a very happy lady. Have played with a few who have found the spot too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love oral, its something that totally turns me on and I could happily lie there for ages.
I find that too many men are rough with their fingers and I blame the obsession with getting women to gush for this. A tongue is much gentler and that's how I like my sex.
But my favourite is licking whilst gently pressing my gspot, that never fails to make me orgasm "
Here here
What's the obsession with squirting anyways? Had a nurse tell me it's just not possible for a woman's body to hold that much fluid without it being urine... But it's up to you what you choose to believe
Some oral and some explorative fingering here please.
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I thought it was oral all the way but this is duly noted 