what makes a regular meet a fuck buddy??
i have had regular meets throughout my time on here but only a couple i would call a fuck buddy.
For me its more than the sex, its how you get on together, feeling secure with them to experience new things together, perhaps meet other people with them etc |
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over a year ago
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
And the ability to make a nice cup of tea! "
Nah, I drink coffee. Can't stand tea. |
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
And the ability to make a nice cup of tea!
Nah, I drink coffee. Can't stand tea."
I like a full brazilian myself...hot and steaming.... |
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously."
This! And I'm lucky enough to have found one  |
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
This! And I'm lucky enough to have found one "
I'd like a fuckbuddy....any offers? From Mr Desperate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
This! And I'm lucky enough to have found one "
I'm hoping I'll be that lucky, once I start looking again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One that can satisfy my needs and I can satIsfy hers and enjoy it ! Go our separate
ways with a smile on our faces for the rest of the day and have happy memories, looking forward to the next time with anticipation and a list of things you didn't do last time but want to try!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Friendship ,reliable , trustworthy great in bed and always willing to try new things, good sense of humour, for me there has to be chemistry if you fancy the pants of them sex is so much better. Been with my latest 5mths and she's lovely .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me its more than the sex, its how you get on together, feeling secure with them to experience new things together, perhaps meet other people with them etc"
I think this sums it up perfectly for me  |
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"For me its more than the sex, its how you get on together, feeling secure with them to experience new things together, perhaps meet other people with them etc
I think this sums it up perfectly for me "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i have never really had any interest in a fuck buddie, to be honest i have met very few guys that have held my interest enough to make me want to meet them twice never mind regular, mosr are either great guys or good in bed very few guys i have met have carried both traits which i would need for it to be a regular things |
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"Hate the term "Fuck buddie"...
But they have to be a good shag and more importantly a good friend....
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I usually refer to them as a bit on the side.. Not that I am married or anything but they are a sideline iln my life if that makes sense... |
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy. "
I am not sure I look for anything in terms of fuck buddies......... they just sort of happen. A year passes and you realise you are still arranging to meet them. I guess you could say it's the fact I still want to shag them after the novelty of others has worn off.
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"Hate the term "Fuck buddie"...
But they have to be a good shag and more importantly a good friend....
I usually refer to them as a bit on the side.. Not that I am married or anything but they are a sideline iln my life if that makes sense... "
Prefer the term 'Lover' , fuck buddie sounds wrong . |
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Can't say I look for or know what a fuck buddy is really? I have several male friends I have known for years who I keep in touch with and speak to regularly, meet every 2-3 months but class them as friends. Is that the same? |
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"Can't say I look for or know what a fuck buddy is really? I have several male friends I have known for years who I keep in touch with and speak to regularly, meet every 2-3 months but class them as friends. Is that the same?"
I'd say yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone that likes the same things as me, understands me and I understand him. Respectful but also very horny. I wasn't looking and I still can't believe it but it works brilliantly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only got the one. He has needs that fit with mine, so to speak, and we both have the same level of ultra discretion and understanding. And his cock is f*****g massive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy.
Honesty, reliability, respect and good looks work for me. "
All my best qualities! Alas I'm a bit of a bastard too though do you like bad boys? |
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy.
Honesty, reliability, respect and good looks work for me.
All my best qualities! Alas I'm a bit of a bastard too though do you like bad boys? "
No bastards are always unreliable  |
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By *wencat OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
And the ability to make a nice cup of tea!"
the tea parts defo a must |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously."
Dam it its all about location, location, location and I'd have been perfect lol  |
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
Dam it its all about location, location, location and I'd have been perfect lol "
How do you know I'd feel comfortable with you? |
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
Dam it its all about location, location, location and I'd have been perfect lol
How do you know I'd feel comfortable with you?"
I'm one of the easiest people to get on with but I no there's no garentee. |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
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"Local and able to meet fairly often. Intelligent, funny, someone I feel comfortable with. Open-minded. Oh, and a good shag, obviously.
And the ability to make a nice cup of tea!"
and one who isnt looking for commitment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hate the term "Fuck buddie"...
But they have to be a good shag and more importantly a good friend....
I usually refer to them as a bit on the side.. Not that I am married or anything but they are a sideline iln my life if that makes sense...
Prefer the term 'Lover' , fuck buddie sounds wrong ."
Hear hear!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had one or two over the years - was easier when I wasn't travelling so much with work!
Those arrangements that worked well did so on an understanding that neither was at the others beck and call, and that 'sorry, I'm busy' was not a problem. That, and a clear understanding of the nature of the 'relationship' - fun, good sex and no expectancy of anything more, be that you or they being free to see whoever else they want, no constant texts/calls/emails at all hours just cos they're bored/horny - and definitely no 'hoping it'll turn into something more'!!
These days - I'm not looking. Partly because I enjoy the fact I've gotten to meet a few people on my travels that are happy for occasional repeat visits, and partly because I honestly don't have the time to be able to offer what I'd feel would need to make it worthwhile for the other party!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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someone
local ish
easy to get on with in and out of bed
trust worthy
respectful
available weekly
oh and possibly willing to push boundaries
and as some one else has said someone who knows it is definatley NSA...
For the record I make a
good cup of tea
and a good coffee
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy.
I am not sure I look for anything in terms of fuck buddies......... they just sort of happen. A year passes and you realise you are still arranging to meet them. I guess you could say it's the fact I still want to shag them after the novelty of others has worn off.
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This |
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I have a rule/game. That i use with guys know well. They come to my house and for the whole evening they have my undivided attention. Once the door has closed on there way out its back to normal life, chatting to them normally online just being normal friends, but none of this asking who the other has met or "am i your number one" im very close to some of my friends. But same rules apply, if one wanted to come over and id already made arrangements i wouldnt change them for them, and they know it. I also wouldnt want them to change arrangements if i was free and they werent |
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy.
Honesty, reliability, respect and good looks work for me.
All my best qualities! Alas I'm a bit of a bastard too though do you like bad boys? "
Im quite into "ugly" looking guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I go for people I can get on well with as friends socially as well as the sex being good. I have met people before where it is mainly about the sex with small talk but I like being able to chill out and have a laugh with someone and getting to know them as a person.
Friends with benefits is great if done well as long as both people are up front with everything so it's not one leading or pushing the other into something more. Some people seem to struggle with the whole having a friend AND being able to sleep with them.
You get some that feel that it should become a relationship. Or those that don't so they take away the sex aspect because they themselves can't handle it being what it is. |
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy. "
a women who loves to open her legs and not her mouth (lmao) BUT not a lot of them around is their ? |
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My swinging partner has been the best by far.
Fairly local.. Tick
Good friend ... Tick
Open minded ... Double tick
Willing to meet others as twosome ... Tick
Best sex I've ever had .. Too bloody right ... Makes my eyes roll in the back of my head .... ... Tick tick tick
All this means we've been happily meeting for ages and ages ....
We have the perfect 'relangement'
Each with our own lives and awesome sex |
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy. a women who loves to open her legs and not her mouth (lmao) BUT not a lot of them around is their ? "
Even fewer having seen that charming description, I'd wager! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a rule/game. That i use with guys know well. They come to my house and for the whole evening they have my undivided attention. Once the door has closed on there way out its back to normal life, chatting to them normally online just being normal friends, but none of this asking who the other has met or "am i your number one" im very close to some of my friends. But same rules apply, if one wanted to come over and id already made arrangements i wouldnt change them for them, and they know it. I also wouldnt want them to change arrangements if i was free and they werent"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am wondering what do we all look for in the perfect fuck buddy. a women who loves to open her legs and not her mouth (lmao) BUT not a lot of them around is their ?
Even fewer having seen that charming description, I'd wager!"
Forgot the quote!
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By *wencat OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have a rule/game. That i use with guys know well. They come to my house and for the whole evening they have my undivided attention. Once the door has closed on there way out its back to normal life, chatting to them normally online just being normal friends, but none of this asking who the other has met or "am i your number one" im very close to some of my friends. But same rules apply, if one wanted to come over and id already made arrangements i wouldnt change them for them, and they know it. I also wouldnt want them to change arrangements if i was free and they werent "
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