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Does anyone have any tips about avoiding pitfalls of bringing a new 24/7 partner into the lifestyle.
I’ve been in the life a while and he is very new, but very keen and interested to explore. Worried about making errors which could damage our relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone have any tips about avoiding pitfalls of bringing a new 24/7 partner into the lifestyle.
I’ve been in the life a while and he is very new, but very keen and interested to explore. Worried about making errors which could damage our relationship. "
Talk to him ... communication  |
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Clear Boundaries
Swinging is supposed to enrich your relationship, it must always come first.
Personally I would be concentrating on my relationship and drip feed swinging in when it felt ready, slow and steady communication and if it doesn't feel right. Stop. |
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Probably best to sit down and talk
Set strict bonders
Establish
If it’s opened or semi opened
Ie open would be able to play with who each like at anytime without the other really have a say so
Semi open would be the ability to play with others but only If the other has given the go head first also they have a say in who you play with same with you
Ie if you don’t want them to play with someone for what ever reason they don’t and vice versa
Also would say a club would be best bet for first time
Safe on all parts incase jellos sets in at any point in time
Hopefully it works out op |
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When I have been partnering someone or in a relationship where obviously we had a strong connection, we would always agree that if either of us didn't fancy someone, neither of us would play other than with each other. There was never any taking one for the team, and that worked every time. |
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"Does anyone have any tips about avoiding pitfalls of bringing a new 24/7 partner into the lifestyle.
I’ve been in the life a while and he is very new, but very keen and interested to explore. Worried about making errors which could damage our relationship. "
What are his boundaries? What is he keen to explore? |
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