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Ladies sending first message
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That’s good to know. I was genuinely curious, there’s so many great profiles here, just firefighting your inbox’s must be so time consuming let alone searching and starting new convos |
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"Hi. Do woman here ever send the first message? Is it common? Or does the sheer disparity between guys and girls therefore mean it’s unnecessary. "
They do but I've never received one, it probably is unnecessary for them but they're limited to who messages them rather than who they fancy if they don't.
I don't understand why more don't set filters and search for who they want. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi. Do woman here ever send the first message? Is it common? Or does the sheer disparity between guys and girls therefore mean it’s unnecessary. "
Some do, some don’t. Most of our meets have been the result of women reaching out to us.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the responses. Your a wonderful bunch  . I think I just need to raise my profile game haha. Try and draw in a message or two. I need to become the hunted rather than the hunter |
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Not all women are firefighting their inbox. Some actually take control of their profiles and use the available filters and message those who catch their eye.
90 percent of all conversations I've had since the beginning of 2020 have been initiated by the women. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
In the long time I've been on here I have had occasional but rare first messages from women and the most recent has led to great things proving good things come to those who wait eventually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi. Do woman here ever send the first message? Is it common? Or does the sheer disparity between guys and girls therefore mean it’s unnecessary. "
I've made the first move several times |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I generally don't reply to received messages, I've always preferred to contact people that I like the look of...in fact, I've only ever met one person who contacted me first. "
Lucky him  |
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