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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How could it be more common? Do you mean people should be less selctive? Maybe the answer is that you need to make yourself stand out more?"
no iv sent a lot of messages and iv noticed a lot of people delete the messages before they read it or look at my profile and notice my age and make it a problem to contact back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How could it be more common? Do you mean people should be less selctive? Maybe the answer is that you need to make yourself stand out more?
no iv sent a lot of messages and iv noticed a lot of people delete the messages before they read it or look at my profile and notice my age and make it a problem to contact back"
It's not actually possible to tell whether a message has been read or not before it was deleted... 
And if the don't contact you how do you know it's your age that is their issue? You are making a big assumption there.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How could it be more common? Do you mean people should be less selctive? Maybe the answer is that you need to make yourself stand out more?
no iv sent a lot of messages and iv noticed a lot of people delete the messages before they read it or look at my profile and notice my age and make it a problem to contact back
It's not actually possible to tell whether a message has been read or not before it was deleted...
And if the don't contact you how do you know it's your age that is their issue? You are making a big assumption there.
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i have had some people messaging me back saying im too young for them and have had similar problems on other sites |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"How could it be more common? Do you mean people should be less selctive? Maybe the answer is that you need to make yourself stand out more?
no iv sent a lot of messages and iv noticed a lot of people delete the messages before they read it or look at my profile and notice my age and make it a problem to contact back"
you read his message but I don't think you quite understood...
from the hundreds of messages a couple may get at any particular time... how do YOU stand out?
What makes people say "wow I have to meet this guy?"....
see... age is an easy excuse and places all the blame elsewhere and none of the blame on you....
and if that is how you feel your are never going to improve your chances because you are Blameless.....
you get out what you put in, and that starts by asking yourself "what can I do to make Myself look better... are you selling yourself to your maximum? for example.... are you going to the countless socials or clubs to show you are different! are you in effect being the best "you" you can be...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common"
Shame you don't live nearer lol ...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common
Shame you don't live nearer lol ... "
it is a shame porky. but i do travel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How could it be more common? Do you mean people should be less selctive? Maybe the answer is that you need to make yourself stand out more?
no iv sent a lot of messages and iv noticed a lot of people delete the messages before they read it or look at my profile and notice my age and make it a problem to contact back
you read his message but I don't think you quite understood...
from the hundreds of messages a couple may get at any particular time... how do YOU stand out?
What makes people say "wow I have to meet this guy?"....
see... age is an easy excuse and places all the blame elsewhere and none of the blame on you....
and if that is how you feel your are never going to improve your chances because you are Blameless.....
you get out what you put in, and that starts by asking yourself "what can I do to make Myself look better... are you selling yourself to your maximum? for example.... are you going to the countless socials or clubs to show you are different! are you in effect being the best "you" you can be......"
you might be right there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common
Shame you don't live nearer lol ...
it is a shame porky. but i do travel"
Actually that was Perky expressing her disappointment, but if you really want to travel to see me.......... Lol!
 Pork |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common
Shame you don't live nearer lol ...
it is a shame porky. but i do travel
Actually that was Perky expressing her disappointment, but if you really want to travel to see me.......... Lol!
Pork"
what are the chances of travelling to meet both of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not another one of these topics tonight! bahhhhhh!
whats everyone's problem tonight lol
no pun intended.
wait wasnt you giving up a second ago "
Yeah, was just having a tease matey  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"not another one of these topics tonight! bahhhhhh!
whats everyone's problem tonight lol
no pun intended.
wait wasnt you giving up a second ago
Yeah, was just having a tease matey "
good on you mate haha |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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see... the one thing you and kane both have in commons is that you have both actually had meets.... and are probably doing a lot better than most guys are here....
but the expectation in both of your heads is so much above those that is the reality and like I said in the other thread.... be thankful for the meets you got, as opposed to the ones you haven't..... |
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Well your age is an issue for me, I teach your age group and would find it very un-nerving to have sex with someone that age. It doesnt matter how good looking you are (and you are good looking) the age thing has to be kept to or im not being honest to myself. |
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"what happened to giving people a chance on here.
iv sent countless messages to couples and females on here with more than one sentence messages and the profiles iv been sending them too say they are interested in young males.
giving someone a chance to show they are actually a good meet and up for a laugh should be more common"
well thing is your profile seems to mislead a bit , your str8 but ok to meet tvs ,your freinds list has a few tvs on it,so the message you could be sending out is " i am bi" some cpls single fems might not want to meet bi single men , i aint saying this is the anser ,just something that might put some one off, imo 3 meets in under a year is a cany meet rate for some single guys .maybe a overhaul of profile and rewrite is something to think about. |
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