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Is this site a bore?
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?"
I’ve definitely found it worse over the years. Feels Like there’s more fakes, more only fans advertisers, more timewasters etc
But at the same time meeting has been off the table over a year now.
It’s like a football club where you can’t play football |
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?
I’ve definitely found it worse over the years. Feels Like there’s more fakes, more only fans advertisers, more timewasters etc
But at the same time meeting has been off the table over a year now.
It’s like a football club where you can’t play football"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely not boring at all think the lack off being able to meet is frustrating people if it wasn’t for the forums my profile would be pulled till meets are back on but forums have keep me around |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Nope! But I guess it’s what people make of it. If it’s only for meeting then this last year is going to be pretty damn dull.
It does amuse me somewhat when people say things like that though. No one is forced to be on here and a large portion of time on here is what you make of it.
If people are bored with forum content? post what interests you, people aren’t interacting? change your profile and approach.
I often find that those complaining that it’s boring, are the ones that expect others to entertain and make them interested |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I don't think so, end of the day you only get out what you put in something, if the ones that are moaning expected to to be up to their neck in cock or pussy within a week or so are probably on the wrong site to start off with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chances are they are boring people 
It is very easy to make the site exciting for yourself.
Starts your own threads
Go into chat
Go on cam
Post new photos
Etc etc.
If you just rely on others input you can't really moan as you are part of the reason then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope! But I guess it’s what people make of it. If it’s only for meeting then this last year is going to be pretty damn dull.
It does amuse me somewhat when people say things like that though. No one is forced to be on here and a large portion of time on here is what you make of it.
If people are bored with forum content? post what interests you, people aren’t interacting? change your profile and approach.
I often find that those complaining that it’s boring, are the ones that expect others to entertain and make them interested"
We were typing similar things at the same time then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It can be quite, but I find it hard to agree it’s boring. Here’s why.
You want exciting, go bungee jumping or take a road trip. Try a theme park, or I night out with your mates. There’s lots of exciting things and people in the real world.
Fab swingers website is a websit on the net, you log on with your phone, probably alone and you complain that it’s boring.....
*just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?"
As long as there are posters like your self starting multiple threads a day it can’t really become boring imho can it.
Fab is fab and I never find it boring personally.
T |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Nope! But I guess it’s what people make of it. If it’s only for meeting then this last year is going to be pretty damn dull.
It does amuse me somewhat when people say things like that though. No one is forced to be on here and a large portion of time on here is what you make of it.
If people are bored with forum content? post what interests you, people aren’t interacting? change your profile and approach.
I often find that those complaining that it’s boring, are the ones that expect others to entertain and make them interested
We were typing similar things at the same time then "
Yup!
Except you bullet pointed and were way more concise  |
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?
As long as there are posters like your self starting multiple threads a day it can’t really become boring imho can it.
Fab is fab and I never find it boring personally.
T"
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"It can be quite, but I find it hard to agree it’s boring. Here’s why.
You want exciting, go bungee jumping or take a road trip. Try a theme park, or I night out with your mates. There’s lots of exciting things and people in the real world.
Fab swingers website is a websit on the net, you log on with your phone, probably alone and you complain that it’s boring.....
*just my opinion. "
Except none of the things you mentioned are possible at the moment |
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"The site just IS.
It cannot bore. It cannot excite.
Those are human reactions.
When you finish your first philosophy lesson and wanna show off "
Was that about what i've posted? You've quoted me - what do you mean ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can be quite, but I find it hard to agree it’s boring. Here’s why.
You want exciting, go bungee jumping or take a road trip. Try a theme park, or I night out with your mates. There’s lots of exciting things and people in the real world.
Fab swingers website is a websit on the net, you log on with your phone, probably alone and you complain that it’s boring.....
*just my opinion.
Except none of the things you mentioned are possible at the moment "
I know. I know.  but you get the idea though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?
I’ve definitely found it worse over the years. Feels Like there’s more fakes, more only fans advertisers, more timewasters etc
But at the same time meeting has been off the table over a year now.
It’s like a football club where you can’t play football"
I have noticed a lot of women who are popular on here seem to have paid subscription accounts and Amazon wishlists etc. I guess it explains how they can afford boob jobs and lots of lingerie.
If they create content then I can understand them wanting tp gind people to film with on here but it makes me feel like there's less of a place for ordinary women who aren't extremely confident.
I find I rarely receive interest from women and a lot of messages from men don't excite me so I am getting bored and fed up. If I can find some other sites where yoi can post whatever you wish I'll use those instead.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take long breaks from the site.
Just forget about it then come back when ready.
For some they must have sex all the time and I understand that so this place can be addictive.
For others the odd bit of fun and making friends is good enough.
You'll find that when you return from a period away no one really misses you if you're a man because that's just how the numbers game works.
Don't take it to heart or to seriously. |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
Cleethorpes |
I understand where they're coming from, between the fakes and idiots which is just tiresome I'm only here for the people I've gotten to know already and to have a nosey on the forums
Difficult at the moment aswell with the way the world is!
Fingers crossed it gets better xx |
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"I wouldn't say it's boring and certainly not for a female or a couple,But for a male it can be hard as a lot of single males have ruined it for us genuine ones. Just my observation. "
i agree with your comment totally |
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We've only been here a short while but so far we've had an absolute blast! It's been awesome making connections, we've chatted to and are still chatting to some incredibly lovely and sexy people 
As has been said, you get out what you put in, just enjoy the place and don't take it too seriously...
Very much looking forward to meeting people in clubs/at parties etc etc... 
Paul and Alyson x x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"I wouldn't say it's boring and certainly not for a female or a couple,But for a male it can be hard as a lot of single males have ruined it for us genuine ones. Just my observation. "
It's my laziness that stops me chatting to men at the moment. I don't judge men by other men's behaviour, but I do block all men from messaging often, as I can't be dealing with the endless conversations with men asking to meet ASAP. |
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Well I mean, some of the forum threads can get a bit repetitive, with the blank profile brigade posting the "ny1 up 4 Kik chat" crap (I wonder if that ever actually works ), but that's just noise.
Overall I've always found that there's loads of people with a good sense of humour around. It's bloody hard keeping up with some of the threads though
I guess as far as actual meets / chatting to people privately goes, that's down to the individual / couple in question. We've definitely found that a lot of people either can't or can't be arsed with an anywhere near decent conversation, but then we're more social swingers so that could just be us.
Definitely wouldn't say the site is in any way boring. As far as I know it's the biggest community of swingers in the UK, and is definitely what you make of it. As with anything swinging related, it's bloody hard as a single bloke unless you're Brad Pitt (or want to meet other single blokes in the same boat). |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I have always thought that "boring" is something that is linked to the person who is bored:
When people tell me they are bored I wonder whether they have unrealistic expectations of something - anything really.
If I am bored I seek entertainment elsewhere which would be easy. The fact I am still here after 10 years is a sign that I am not bored. xx
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"Well I mean, some of the forum threads can get a bit repetitive, with the blank profile brigade posting the "ny1 up 4 Kik chat" crap (I wonder if that ever actually works ), but that's just noise.
Overall I've always found that there's loads of people with a good sense of humour around. It's bloody hard keeping up with some of the threads though
I guess as far as actual meets / chatting to people privately goes, that's down to the individual / couple in question. We've definitely found that a lot of people either can't or can't be arsed with an anywhere near decent conversation, but then we're more social swingers so that could just be us.
Definitely wouldn't say the site is in any way boring. As far as I know it's the biggest community of swingers in the UK, and is definitely what you make of it. As with anything swinging related, it's bloody hard as a single bloke unless you're Brad Pitt (or want to meet other single blokes in the same boat). "
Than k you for this insight |
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"I have always thought that "boring" is something that is linked to the person who is bored:
When people tell me they are bored I wonder whether they have unrealistic expectations of something - anything really.
If I am bored I seek entertainment elsewhere which would be easy. The fact I am still here after 10 years is a sign that I am not bored. xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The general content of the site hasn't changed other than social distance restrictions.....
But it's natural enough for people to get bored of something.
It's usually more of a personal thing than an indication that the whole site has just become boring all of a sudden..
I've lost interest here load of times... I take a break and come back when my interest is back. |
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"I just read that this site is becoming a bore. I do not think so.
Any comments?
I’ve definitely found it worse over the years. Feels Like there’s more fakes, more only fans advertisers, more timewasters etc
But at the same time meeting has been off the table over a year now.
It’s like a football club where you can’t play football"
Yes def going down hill fast, there are some genuine people on here but all to often people join the site strike up a conversation and then disappear leaving you with no conversation on your profile, no contact, as if they did not exist making you wonder if the site just generate's ghosts to make it look like it popular so I now come on here expecting them to be gone and not taking any future meets seriously, I have four people on here who have actually met, two I knew before I joined from dogging that leaves two and they say the same thing. The only reason I've stayed is to keep in touch with them.  |
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"I have always thought that "boring" is something that is linked to the person who is bored:
When people tell me they are bored I wonder whether they have unrealistic expectations of something - anything really.
If I am bored I seek entertainment elsewhere which would be easy. The fact I am still here after 10 years is a sign that I am not bored. xx
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This Boredom is your reaction to something, it doesn't follow that the thing is boring. Many people find sport boring, for example, for others it's thrilling. I don't think I'm ever bored as I avoid things which don't interest me, why do otherwise? |
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