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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Time.
It heals and the scar will fade x"
and distraction, grieve for a little while then fill your time with things you enjoy - if you dwell and keep poking the wound it never gets a chance to heal |
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"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......"
if you truly have a broken heart it literally kills you, therefore this is more likely a hurt that time will heal.
some people are only in our lives short term, others for longer, we often don't get to decide which. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......
Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.
Cal"
oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart  |
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"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......"
Yes, but it takes time and in my case, finding someone who I love more than I ever thought possible.
The break up with my ex-husband was incredibly emotionally painful on many levels and I was broken for a ling time. Keeping busy helped me... many many people had no idea. |
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"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......
Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.
Cal
oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart "
Fortunately, this is not a danger for Cal. We are even more in love now than when we married iver 15 years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A broken Heart....can it really ever be fixed......
Being in love with someone else does the job, but it can take some time to find the right person.
Cal
oh as someone who takes far too long to get over people its highly likely i am doing it wrong, but i think you have to heal before you find someone else or you are setting yourself or them up for the next broken heart
Fortunately, this is not a danger for Cal. We are even more in love now than when we married iver 15 years ago "
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Remember that every day you get is a blessing and that's double when someone chooses to spend it with you.
Nobody is guaranteed love or friendship. Sometimes we walk the same path for a time. Appreciate that nothing lasts forever.
You will be OK again.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly I don't think a broken heart can always be fixed but I do think time and patience can help in a way. I guess it depends on what broke your heart?
I think about some things happening to me and I don't think anything could ever mend my heart if any of those scenarios I sometimes think about ever happened.
Sending you healing vibes OP. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Play a lot of sad songs, cry a lot, drink some cheap wine, cry some more.
Then say enough is enough.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself down, take care of your emotional health and look after you.
Get plenty of sleep, plenty of fresh air. Have adventures.
Eventually you think of them less.
Eventually you think of them and it doesn’t hurt.
Eventually you’ll think of them and smile and move on with your day.
It all takes time. |
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