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Single women, how do you manage messages?
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 when females say about the hundreds of messages.
My profile has always said, don't message me with "hi, how are you" and I can see those from the inbox, so will just delete.
Even when I have been in chat I don't get 100's of messages, so maybe get a profile/pics like mine and you'll be fine 
just pick the ones you like the look of or just use your filters if its a bit too much. or even hide your profile until you have managed to get through them.
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"Filters, and then i ask stooopid questions, they generally leave me alone after that "Hehe! Stoopid questions I can do! | |||
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"I have always been a bit when females say about the hundreds of messages."In retrospect putting "kinky" in my name probably didn't help. Perhaps I'll change my name. The photos of me in latex are a bit of a red rag to a bull too, but do I want to limit interest at the cost of finding people who genuinely share my kinks? It does at least allow me to delete anyone who says "PVC". *shudder* | |||
"Filters, and then i ask stooopid questions, they generally leave me alone after that
Hehe! Stoopid questions I can do!"Try it | |||
"I have always been a bit when females say about the hundreds of messages.
In retrospect putting "kinky" in my name probably didn't help. Perhaps I'll change my name.
The photos of me in latex are a bit of a red rag to a bull too, but do I want to limit interest at the cost of finding people who genuinely share my kinks? It does at least allow me to delete anyone who says "PVC". *shudder*"Wish I could help you, but I have never experienced the loads of messages, or maybe I'm a quick reader I dunno lol Only change your name if YOU want to! Only use filters if YOU want to! Delete messages, if YOU want to! It's all about choice on here, just make sure you have fun xx | |||
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"Hi Well nik has a profile for herself.she has got veris off a few people.she said she gets hardly any messages.she now thinks sh is doing somethin wrong. She just says maybe in the future to people she likes but no time to meet." Try adding "Nik has her own profile" to your couples profile...;-) Then watch as her inbox explodes... | |||
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"If you have enough meets for the time being .... Hide Your Profile xx" . Good advice!  | |||
"Wording your profile or status as if you want more contact and soon will generate more mail. Putting an update on the top of your profile saying you have enough contacts to sort through for now cuts down the mail. " . Another good advice!
The latter certainly works for me. | |||
"Wording your profile or status as if you want more contact and soon will generate more mail. Putting an update on the top of your profile saying you have enough contacts to sort through for now cuts down the mail. . Another good advice!
The latter certainly works for me. "I can vouch that certainly works. I put rhubarb at the top of mine and never had so much of it | |||
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 ), I tell them too, if there is no mutual attraction, nothing is going to happen. They either wait for me or they disappear and don't chat again, who needs filters; two jobs is just as good.
But I do understand where you are coming from, when I was doing less hours in the second job, I met a different guy, socially every night of the week over about 2 weeks, decided that was silly and didn't give me any time to myself and really if they are not prepared to wait, they are not worth meeting. Tell them you have a list of people who you would like to meet, that they are on the list, see what they say, if they are quite happy and relaxed about meeting when you are ready, keep them on the list, if they get pushy, take them off the list | |||
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