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"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home " Will the mrs not suck and fuck either  | |||
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"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home " Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework " Can't understand why most men don't get this  | |||
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"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework Can't understand why most men don't get this "I really don't either. | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Will the mrs not suck and fuck either "Hehehe that's a good one  | |||
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"I'll bet you didn't think ud get these kind of responses "Ah sure we're here to feel sorry for him  | |||
"I'll bet you didn't think ud get these kind of responses
Ah sure we're here to feel sorry for him "A bit of sympathy maybe | |||
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"I'll bet you didn't think ud get these kind of responses
Ah sure we're here to feel sorry for him
A bit of sympathy maybe"I'll send a card | |||
"Maybe ask at home why there's no sex "-------- | |||
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"The women you built a home, family with not fancy sex with you tells me loads about you tbh." And it's definitely all his fault?  | |||
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"I not say it was his fault what I am saying if he can't score at home , he not scoring away with me ." So if he would score at home then he may scoring with you then? | |||
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"If you’re not happy at home why do you stay?? Not that I haven’t heard all that crap before from guys on here! You’re gonna need a whole lot of luck getting the ride on fab after this thread "I hope he will not suicide him self after that good fortune from you | |||
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"Yes and many of them feel the need to tell us for some unknown reason. If your own Mrs won't shag you,mine ain't either." | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home " these are the kind of messages we don't even answer. | |||
"Yes and many of them feel the need to tell us for some unknown reason. If your own Mrs won't shag you,mine ain't either." Harsh but very funny | |||
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Bet your thinking why did i post this lol.
Dont think hes gonna get many callers after this | |||
"Plenty of them around here. But most don't publicise it on the forum as triggers relationship advise, judgemental services and the block button brigade. "
I don’t have much sex at home either, instead I hunt abroad , or its rather that half way did she pull me and half way I did fall | |||
"Yes and many of them feel the need to tell us for some unknown reason. If your own Mrs won't shag you,mine ain't either." Best reply | |||
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"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate " I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework " That is a big assumption | |||
"Communication is key in any relationship. Talk to her - have a romantic night rather than trying to pressure her into it. Counselling can work also. Good luck honey x " | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home " Probably quite a few. I won't offer advice or assume why you are not getting sex at home but there are people about who will play with marrieds so you could get what you are looking for. | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework That is a big assumption" I agree with you that is a a big assumption There is such thing as a hubby that does everything this was one off the main reasons I got divorced as she was a lazy bitch and never wanted to work or even lift a finger so it’s not always men who are the lazy ones | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework That is a big assumption I agree with you that is a a big assumption There is such thing as a hubby that does everything this was one off the main reasons I got divorced as she was a lazy bitch and never wanted to work or even lift a finger so it’s not always men who are the lazy ones " I just don't agree with an assumption that when sex goes off the boil in a relationship that it is always the mans fault and it is the downtrodden wife who can't find the time or energy to have sex. There are lot's of reasons why sex stops in a relationship | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. " Not saying you had to fuck him he was just asking for advice all you had to do was give it not slag the poor man off. We can’t all have a girlfriend who wants other men but yet again that’s your choice | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework That is a big assumption I agree with you that is a a big assumption There is such thing as a hubby that does everything this was one off the main reasons I got divorced as she was a lazy bitch and never wanted to work or even lift a finger so it’s not always men who are the lazy ones I just don't agree with an assumption that when sex goes off the boil in a relationship that it is always the mans fault and it is the downtrodden wife who can't find the time or energy to have sex. There are lot's of reasons why sex stops in a relationship" | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. Not saying you had to fuck him he was just asking for advice all you had to do was give it not slag the poor man off. We can’t all have a girlfriend who wants other men but yet again that’s your choice " He didn't ask for advice,he asked if there were any other men not getting sex at home. You made assumptions not me. And yes it is our choice,our choice to join a swinging site,not a free for all sex site. Our choice how we swing and our choice who we swing with. | |||
"I'll bet you didn't think ud get these kind of responses
Ah sure we're here to feel sorry for him
A bit of sympathy maybe
I'll send a card"RIP UNLOS | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate " Things may definitely change. He could find himself single or with a partner who feels obligated to have sex so that he doesn't cheat on her...single is the better option. | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate Things may definitely change. He could find himself single or with a partner who feels obligated to have sex so that he doesn't cheat on her...single is the better option." I agree with you single is the way forward at least if you don’t get sex you only have self to blame lol | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate Things may definitely change. He could find himself single or with a partner who feels obligated to have sex so that he doesn't cheat on her...single is the better option. I agree with you single is the way forward at least if you don’t get sex you only have self to blame lol " Exactly right | |||
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"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. Not saying you had to fuck him he was just asking for advice all you had to do was give it not slag the poor man off. We can’t all have a girlfriend who wants other men but yet again that’s your choice He didn't ask for advice,he asked if there were any other men not getting sex at home. You made assumptions not me. And yes it is our choice,our choice to join a swinging site,not a free for all sex site. Our choice how we swing and our choice who we swing with. " thanks | |||
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"Ah sure did you not know that women are always right or they like to think so. They must all live such a wonderful life of perfectness. The way half of you presumed it was his fault and not hers. There's 2 sides to every single story so I don't see the need for everyone being so judgemental " thank you | |||
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"Ah sure did you not know that women are always right or they like to think so. They must all live such a wonderful life of perfectness. The way half of you presumed it was his fault and not hers. There's 2 sides to every single story so I don't see the need for everyone being so judgemental " He posted on a public forum, maybe just wanting a rant. Good or bad, the public will give their opinion but thats the chance you take | |||
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"Can't honestly remember when I had sex last with wife" Would you like to talk about it john | |||
Hope this saves the rest of you a fortune in heatpacks | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate " | |||
"Ah sure did you not know that women are always right or they like to think so. They must all live such a wonderful life of perfectness. The way half of you presumed it was his fault and not hers. There's 2 sides to every single story so I don't see the need for everyone being so judgemental He posted on a public forum, maybe just wanting a rant. Good or bad, the public will give their opinion but thats the chance you take "Yip you post on a public forum and you will get a LOT of opinions. Im married and I am on here without his knowledge. I am not asking for opinions but no doubt I will get some lol. All I can say is at least the people, both male and female, who state they are married are being honest. Its the ones who don't admit they are married until you meet them that are worse in my opinion. Same as some say they wont meet married yet do as their verifs show. But when push comes to shove, you will meet who you want to meet. If their marital status bothers you....just don't meet them! Just a question....if all married both female and male who are playing away left fab....how many 'real' swingers would be left? | |||
"Ah sure did you not know that women are always right or they like to think so. They must all live such a wonderful life of perfectness. The way half of you presumed it was his fault and not hers. There's 2 sides to every single story so I don't see the need for everyone being so judgemental He posted on a public forum, maybe just wanting a rant. Good or bad, the public will give their opinion but thats the chance you take
Yip you post on a public forum and you will get a LOT of opinions.
Im married and I am on here without his knowledge. I am not asking for opinions but no doubt I will get some lol.
All I can say is at least the people, both male and female, who state they are married are being honest.
Its the ones who don't admit they are married until you meet them that are worse in my opinion. Same as some say they wont meet married yet do as their verifs show.
But when push comes to shove, you will meet who you want to meet. If their marital status bothers you....just don't meet them!
Just a question....if all married both female and male who are playing away left fab....how many 'real' swingers would be left?
"They aren't being honest with their partners are they? They are just cheats, not real swingers. There would also be plenty of genuine couples and single swingers left. | |||
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"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework That is a big assumption I agree with you that is a a big assumption There is such thing as a hubby that does everything this was one off the main reasons I got divorced as she was a lazy bitch and never wanted to work or even lift a finger so it’s not always men who are the lazy ones " 110% agree with that statement and from experience to | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Clearly a reason not do, she Probally feels like she is doing everything, maintaining a house. Looking after child she could Probally do with a partner who is will to do laundry clean floors and help with homework Can't understand why most men don't get this
I really don't either. "Ah but what if his the house husband?!?! | |||
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"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s " That's the best post on this thread in my opinion. | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s " well said I totally agree with you | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s ... That's the best post on this thread in my opinion. " xx | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s ... That's the best post on this thread in my opinion. " xx | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s well said I totally agree with you" x | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s " Couldn't agree more ... Sometimes it's easy to pounce on a comment without giving it the amount of thought/time it deserves and before you know it, it's an avalanche of sniping remarks.... Well said Mrs S | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s Couldn't agree more ... Sometimes it's easy to pounce on a comment without giving it the amount of thought/time it deserves and before you know it, it's an avalanche of sniping remarks.... Well said Mrs S" thank you x | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s Couldn't agree more ... Sometimes it's easy to pounce on a comment without giving it the amount of thought/time it deserves and before you know it, it's an avalanche of sniping remarks.... Well said Mrs S thank you x" | |||
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"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s " Well said | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s Well said " x | |||
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"Many reasons why there are couples who don't have sex. At the end of the day who are we to judge why someone who is attached, is on a swinger site. If it's not for you,don't meet. No need to judge. World would be alot easier to live without people judging. No-one is a fecking saint. That's my two cents on the matter. " Well said !! | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s Couldn't agree more ... Sometimes it's easy to pounce on a comment without giving it the amount of thought/time it deserves and before you know it, it's an avalanche of sniping remarks.... Well said Mrs S" i know i was in a sexless marriage & it took me quite a time to decide to leave ... but friends I had in the lifestyle were very helpful & supportive in the months leading up to & following the seperation . unless you are walking in th OP shoes you should not be judging him on this matter | |||
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"Many reasons why there are couples who don't have sex. At the end of the day who are we to judge why someone who is attached, is on a swinger site. If it's not for you,don't meet. No need to judge. World would be alot easier to live without people judging. No-one is a fecking saint. That's my two cents on the matter. " x | |||
"Ok I’ll probably get shot for voicing my opinion on this but there are lots of sexless marriages . Doesn’t mean they don’t love each other just some aren’t into it ... and I’m sure the poor guy can’t talk to his friends about this so he’s just voicing to his fab friends to see is he the only one ... just my opinion ... Please don’t shoot me ... Mrs s Couldn't agree more ... Sometimes it's easy to pounce on a comment without giving it the amount of thought/time it deserves and before you know it, it's an avalanche of sniping remarks.... Well said Mrs S i know i was in a sexless marriage & it took me quite a time to decide to leave ... but friends I had in the lifestyle were very helpful & supportive in the months leading up to & following the seperation . unless you are walking in th OP shoes you should not be judging him on this matter" . Absolutely x | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol" . Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x" Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... | |||
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"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... " This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care."Hear hear! | |||
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"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care." | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... " . | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care.
Hear hear!" | |||
"I'm not getting sex at home.... But then I live alone so..... ". Hands are great  | |||
"I'm not getting sex at home.... But then I live alone so..... . Hands are great "Depending on who's hands  | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... " . Exactly droopy I know a family member who completely went off sex when her son was born and felt sex was just for making babies , they ended up breaking up and he lost all contact with his son .. if he took to this to satisfy his sexual needs maybe non of that would have happened but he couldn’t cope with the no sex and now has lost his son too which he regrets .. it’s not as easy as people say to just leave . My kids will always be number one on both sides of our relationship.. as you say unless you are in an abusive relationship then get out but if you are like best friends without the sex then satisfy your needs here xxxx nobody has the right to judge anyone or slate anyone .. | |||
"I'm not getting sex at home.... But then I live alone so..... . Hands are great
Depending on who's hands ". Haha true comment John | |||
"I'm not getting sex at home.... But then I live alone so..... . Hands are great
Depending on who's hands . Haha true comment John "I should have added, what they're doing and what oil/lube they're using | |||
"I'm not getting sex at home.... But then I live alone so..... . Hands are great
Depending on who's hands . Haha true comment John
I should have added, what they're doing and what oil/lube they're using ". Oooh the durex sensual lube is divine smells nice too | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. ". So many like yourself John and women too. It’s not just the women that can go off sex men can to.. and childbirth can make a woman lose her sex drive . When our son was born I didn’t have sex for 8 months and then wanted it again and it was because I wanted another baby close together . Nothing to do with the desire for sex.. women can feel ugly fat unattractive after having kids . It took me years to get my drive back as between a full time working mammy and small kids that last thing on my mind was sex.. I even said to my husband at one stage if he wanted sex elsewhere work away just don’t bring home an sti.... kids are grown now and we have a brill sex life the last 10 yrs xx | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. . So many like yourself John and women too. It’s not just the women that can go off sex men can to.. and childbirth can make a woman lose her sex drive . When our son was born I didn’t have sex for 8 months and then wanted it again and it was because I wanted another baby close together . Nothing to do with the desire for sex.. women can feel ugly fat unattractive after having kids . It took me years to get my drive back as between a full time working mammy and small kids that last thing on my mind was sex.. I even said to my husband at one stage if he wanted sex elsewhere work away just don’t bring home an sti.... kids are grown now and we have a brill sex life the last 10 yrs xx"This is refreshing to hear. Nice and honest and delighted to hear that now your kids are reared ye are having a great sex life too | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. . So many like yourself John and women too. It’s not just the women that can go off sex men can to.. and childbirth can make a woman lose her sex drive . When our son was born I didn’t have sex for 8 months and then wanted it again and it was because I wanted another baby close together . Nothing to do with the desire for sex.. women can feel ugly fat unattractive after having kids . It took me years to get my drive back as between a full time working mammy and small kids that last thing on my mind was sex.. I even said to my husband at one stage if he wanted sex elsewhere work away just don’t bring home an sti.... kids are grown now and we have a brill sex life the last 10 yrs xx"Exactly my experience. Wish my wife had same to me. Hope we get back to where we used to be but she's becoming hippy witch, so not sure that'll happen. Still, kids are the best, so no divorcing here. | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. . So many like yourself John and women too. It’s not just the women that can go off sex men can to.. and childbirth can make a woman lose her sex drive . When our son was born I didn’t have sex for 8 months and then wanted it again and it was because I wanted another baby close together . Nothing to do with the desire for sex.. women can feel ugly fat unattractive after having kids . It took me years to get my drive back as between a full time working mammy and small kids that last thing on my mind was sex.. I even said to my husband at one stage if he wanted sex elsewhere work away just don’t bring home an sti.... kids are grown now and we have a brill sex life the last 10 yrs xx
Exactly my experience. Wish my wife had same to me.
Hope we get back to where we used to be but she's becoming hippy witch, so not sure that'll happen. Still, kids are the best, so no divorcing here.
". At least doing this you’re not hurting anyone , and you fulfill your desires. I love having sex with other couples since we started this | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home " Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking" Chillax! | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax!" | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax!" Ah John, me aul pal, it’s been a while, hope you’re keeping well ?? | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax! "G & N miss you guys too ?? | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax!
G & N miss you guys too ??". Ok you have me who’s this | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking" There is an element of truth in what you say..... let's get on with fucking .. no beating about the bush... If there is a bush | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax! " Did you read your own post back since you posted it? I would say it was worse than this one. Having said that ...can people please read the forum summary before you post. Thanks In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it. | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax! Did you read your own post back since you posted it? I would say it was worse than this one. Having said that ...can people please read the forum summary before you post. Thanks In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it." Has a naming and shaming profile up as well u should have spotted by now if moderators are doing their job right or do u only spot the ones that give out about fab | |||
" Has a naming and shaming profile up as well u should have spotted by now if moderators are doing their job right or do u only spot the ones that give out about fab )" The name and shame threads were put up about 5 hours ago which was 5 O'clock in the morning. All mods were asleep. when I started reading the forum I dealt with them. It can't be dealt with instantly unless a mod is awake 24 hours a day which is impossible for me at least as I do like my sleep | |||
" Has a naming and shaming profile up as well u should have spotted by now if moderators are doing their job right or do u only spot the ones that give out about fab ) The name and shame threads were put up about 5 hours ago which was 5 O'clock in the morning. All mods were asleep. when I started reading the forum I dealt with them. It can't be dealt with instantly unless a mod is awake 24 hours a day which is impossible for me at least as I do like my sleep "i always get a little shiver down my spine Rugby when i see you on the forum im not sure what it is, but you defenitely make my temperature rise, i break out in a cold sweat too, are you looking for single guys by any chance | |||
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" Has a naming and shaming profile up as well u should have spotted by now if moderators are doing their job right or do u only spot the ones that give out about fab ) The name and shame threads were put up about 5 hours ago which was 5 O'clock in the morning. All mods were asleep. when I started reading the forum I dealt with them. It can't be dealt with instantly unless a mod is awake 24 hours a day which is impossible for me at least as I do like my sleep "What people can't be awake 24/7 next you'll be telling me you want Christmas off
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" i always get a little shiver down my spine Rugby when i see you on the forum im not sure what it is, but you defenitely make my temperature rise, i break out in a cold sweat too, are you looking for single guys by any chance "Hahaha | |||
" Has a naming and shaming profile up as well u should have spotted by now if moderators are doing their job right or do u only spot the ones that give out about fab ) The name and shame threads were put up about 5 hours ago which was 5 O'clock in the morning. All mods were asleep. when I started reading the forum I dealt with them. It can't be dealt with instantly unless a mod is awake 24 hours a day which is impossible for me at least as I do like my sleep
What people can't be awake 24/7 next you'll be telling me you want Christmas off
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"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking There is an element of truth in what you say..... let's get on with fucking .. no beating about the bush... If there is a bush" what you mean you don’t make love .... no bush here | |||
"I've taken mine to Spain and still nothing
Hope this saves the rest of you a fortune in heatpacks "Its better fun wanking in the sun | |||
"I have to say if there is no sex at home there has to be somthing wrong. Forget fab go make an effort if you havent done so. If have well then tell her how your feeling. Kids can be a big thing in a sexless marriage. Get a sitter bring her out and show her your trying. Or get her onto this its great when your a couple lol. Lots of couples in sexless marriages don’t want to break up the family unit , it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other... people stop having sex for various reasons and each to their own . Agree the pressure of children doesn’t help on both sides x Absolutely..... The family unit is a massive thing, not alone the welfare of kids but also the being there for the kids.... Ok, maybe a completely different debate, but this is MY opinion. kids suffer in the event of separation, it's all well and good to say they bounce back and I know that in abusive scenarios it's probably better to separate, but if things are ticking over nicely, you still love your partner and the unit you have, but there's no sex, something has to happen hence coming here, there or wherever..... don't judge because everybody has circumstances personal to themselves and sometimes it's nice to air problems or even people airing their kinks without getting blasted..... This
Different people have different sex drives. Unfortunately, due to childbirth, my wife's has changed considerably, which is why I joined here.
Before the condescending wankers jump from the woodwork, I suggested swinging to her as an option but she declined. I've also done all the wining and dining, flowers and chocolate at random times and I cook fucking brilliant food, so don't even attempt to say I haven't tried!
Reality is we are different people, with different needs, so don't bother your arse judging me cos I couldn't give a fuck about your opinion.
Hope that's clear enough for any doubters.
No, I'm not divorcing, as we are in.love and I love my kids, so I'm not going anywhere.
I see sex without emotional commitment as perfectly normal.
Judge all you want, I seriously don't care. . So many like yourself John and women too. It’s not just the women that can go off sex men can to.. and childbirth can make a woman lose her sex drive . When our son was born I didn’t have sex for 8 months and then wanted it again and it was because I wanted another baby close together . Nothing to do with the desire for sex.. women can feel ugly fat unattractive after having kids . It took me years to get my drive back as between a full time working mammy and small kids that last thing on my mind was sex.. I even said to my husband at one stage if he wanted sex elsewhere work away just don’t bring home an sti.... kids are grown now and we have a brill sex life the last 10 yrs xx
This is refreshing to hear. Nice and honest and delighted to hear that now your kids are reared ye are having a great sex life too"it’s | |||
"I've taken mine to Spain and still nothing
Hope this saves the rest of you a fortune in heatpacks
Its better fun wanking in the sun "You're not wrong | |||
"Is there any other men on here getting no sex at home Get the fucking violins out WTF like, seriously! Are you 5yrs old?? Let me give you a lesson in real psychology, men and women aren’t compatible, somebody wrote a book centuries ago and told us that a man and woman had to get married and that you could only have sex for the rest of your life with that person. And because everyone wanted to fit in and feel like they belonged, they all went with it and followed like little blind sheep. We’re not sheep, we’re all individuals, and we can all make up our own minds now on what’s true or not. Most people pretend they’re into monogamy, but they’re not, and most people here are cheating (the poor couples are the worst and they don’t even know their partners are cheating on them here but everyone else knows, talk about disrespect for your partner), so stop moaning and posting shite like this and let’s get on with fucking Chillax! Ah John, me aul pal, it’s been a while, hope you’re keeping well ??" In Spain having a great time. You have me at a loss though as I can't see profile  | |||
"The women you built a home, family with not fancy sex with you tells me loads about you tbh." a very flawed conclusion. OP has been verified and got a pretty good review so need to give him a kick below the belt. Bullying traits are never attractive. | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. " why would it be a PF? | |||
"Can I just say why are people on here so bitchy the poor man has asked a question all the answers are sarcastic. He is obviously having problems at home as there is such thing as problems. All I’m going to say is I hope when you lot have problems and you want advice you get same answers Right as for advice mate talk to your partner and see where things are going wrong and if that don’t work then tell her that you will want a open relationship and I promise things will change our you may get a ok then your free to do as please hope this helps you mate I stick by what I said earlier. We are swinging for our pleasure,not to pity fuck some poor sod who can't get it at home. why would it be a PF?" If it was in a club, they wouldn't know regardless, so don't worry about it | |||
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