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So, I'm quite interested in the whole swinging thing, but my wife isn't. I joined this to feel part of the scene even though I wouldn't actually do anything because it wouldn't be fair on my wife. Hope that's okay with people on here, I know its probably sounds a bit mad. Just wanted to set the record straight. |
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"So, I'm quite interested in the whole swinging thing, but my wife isn't. I joined this to feel part of the scene even though I wouldn't actually do anything because it wouldn't be fair on my wife. Hope that's okay with people on here, I know its probably sounds a bit mad. Just wanted to set the record straight. "
Welcome! People use the site in different ways and yours isn't ny better or worse than anyone else's. Does sound like you might be teasing yourself a bit though. Are you 100 sure your wife can't he brought on board? Perhaps choose something that you think she might enjoy (like two men and her, or a first girl-girl experience). The way to bring her along is to show her what's in it for her. |
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I consider myself very lucky to have convinced himself to take that first step and we can now explore this together. Many couples like yourself aren't so lucky, but i'd suggest there's always hope if you take the right approach like what FN suggested. Sometimes it can take years to come round to the idea. Try pillow talk, when she may be most open to the idea, but don't push it as she may never come round. Your relationship must always take priority. Good luck. |
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"I consider myself very lucky to have convinced himself to take that first step and we can now explore this together. Many couples like yourself aren't so lucky, but i'd suggest there's always hope if you take the right approach like what FN suggested. Sometimes it can take years to come round to the idea. Try pillow talk, when she may be most open to the idea, but don't push it as she may never come round. Your relationship must always take priority. Good luck. "
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"I consider myself very lucky to have convinced himself to take that first step and we can now explore this together. Many couples like yourself aren't so lucky, but i'd suggest there's always hope if you take the right approach like what FN suggested. Sometimes it can take years to come round to the idea. Try pillow talk, when she may be most open to the idea, but don't push it as she may never come round. Your relationship must always take priority. Good luck.
We all consider ourselves lucky "
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