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"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress
If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon"
I never considered there were two types of meet!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol no ... have never done that ... reminds me of that scene from the inbetweeners where Neil advises Jay to have that "tactical" wank before having sex with his gf for the first time. I suppose the idea was to prevent premature ejaculation. It didn't work out that well...  |
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"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.
Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "
Each to their own but I've never taken any recommendations on this site and don't intend to start now. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.
Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "
If he's lasting 3 minutes it's recommended for the woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wasn't that in the film "there's something about Mary" with Ben stiller and Cameron Diaz??
No, it wouldn't be something that I would do!!
But I would do Cameron Diaz though!!! |
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"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.
Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended.
Each to their own but I've never taken any recommendations on this site and don't intend to start now. "
It’s not a recommendation for people who don’t have that issue. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
There's also the fact that some women like a heavy cummer so by having a wank first you take something from their enjoyment
Some men can last for hours...some women love it....some women hate it
Some men last a normal length of time and go again
Its all about finding the balance really isn't it
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over a year ago
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"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.
Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "
I've never did it or even though about doing it.
Lasting less than 3 minutes is definitely not the problem goes on more for 30minutes 
Which isn't great for some girls either.
So what I'm asking is can it last too long? |
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over a year ago
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Never. At least not in a tactical sense. |
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over a year ago
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Didn't that guy recommend one in the film " There's something about Mary "  |
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I don't suffer from premature ejaculation OP, although i do like to meet up with a regular fb if possible for a good session several hours before a first date. It definitely helps to take the edge off, plus I'm much more chatty and energised. |
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Apologies for the multiple posts. Had to rethink.
Some couples love the theatre of cum, so I would avoid doing so if that were on the cards.
If I just need raw unrelenting fuck power, it's a smart move. |
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Never have. The poster that mentions “There’s Something About Mary” is correct. It was used in that movie.
I can neither confirm or deny that I may have had a “well that didn’t go as expected!” wank after a meet. |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress
If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon"
should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that?? |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress
If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon
should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that?? "
Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone…. |
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By *issme39Woman
over a year ago
kildare |
"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress
If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon
should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??
Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone…. "
now Mr Linden you always impress |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Years ago in my twenties I did, now I have more control.
It's definitely a help if you are going into a situation where you are really turned on, as in group situations but one on one, no need anymore.
It works , but as some posers said, it takes away from the load |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
naas which is South West of Dublin |
"Depends if it’s a meet for a selfish release or if you’re looking to impress
If you want to impress then best not going in with a loaded weapon
should you not want to impress everyone you have a meet with?? or is that just me who does that??
Perhaps it doesn’t come as naturally to everyone….
now Mr Linden you always impress "
It’s a lot of work…..  |
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I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…only if I haven’t sex in a good while and was afraid I might get abit too excited during proceedings. Usually it works fine. I’m always ready for round 2 & 3 in minutes anyways if they are ready to keep going!  |
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"I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…"
Agreed. Bravado is the order of the day.
If I've been anticipating a meet for a while, my fluids are so high-pressure I can't think straight, let alone function and get there tidy, punctual, and prepared.
Some kind of pressure release is the only sane option if they want someone they can talk with and not just an engorged priapist.
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By *ustyboyMan
over a year ago
Greater Dublin & Belfast now onwards |
I think there is no point of going with tactics . I don’t think car meets happens in reality so if you are in hotel room then why not take full value for money and use the whole night instead of only one shot |
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"I’m sure many of the guys on this thread have tried it before but aren’t open to admitting it as it might hurt their ego. I’ve done it a few times before…
Agreed. Bravado is the order of the day.
If I've been anticipating a meet for a while, my fluids are so high-pressure I can't think straight, let alone function and get there tidy, punctual, and prepared.
Some kind of pressure release is the only sane option if they want someone they can talk with and not just an engorged priapist.
(will get better at forum posting. Apologies for deletes!)"
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
All depends. If they're a cum lover,then probably wait and keep them happy almost as soon as arriving, due to excitement.
If not, then yes, shoot one off beforehand and shower before meeting, just to calm the nerves.
All ideally discussed in advance but, if unsure, I'd go with releasing in advance and enjoy the foreplay that little bit longer.
Or, if she considers you cumming as part of foreplay, then hold off.
Oh! It's so complicated, without discussing in advance.
As I've said many times, always better if the woman brings the guy to orgasm first, then he brings her to orgasm before any penetration, or even no penetration and just enjoyment of each other in whatever comes naturally |
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"Always. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar or an amateur. "
if you need to before a meet then thats your choice but dont know why you would want to call those who dont liars! Thats quite arrogant of you to insult every guy who doesnt need to.
Never needed to have a "tactical" wank befre a meet myself. Generally last quite a while and want to enjoy every moment of it i would think a "tactical" wank would reduce that enjoyment. But that's just me. |
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I never do. I dont want to ruin a great night with finshing with a small load. Plus, for me at least, i can last regardless if i have a tactical wank or not.
I do know some guys who do it, but i personally dont. See no point in doing to be honest.
Hope that helps OP |
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it?
Why on earth would a guy do that? "
I’ve asked men to do it in the past when I know they come very quickly. Especially if they aren’t repeaters or you don’t have much time together. At one point I had a run of 3 meets that all finished within 30 seconds. So it is an issue for some men. More than are posting on here. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it?
Why on earth would a guy do that?
I’ve asked men to do it in the past when I know they come very quickly. Especially if they aren’t repeaters or you don’t have much time together. At one point I had a run of 3 meets that all finished within 30 seconds. So it is an issue for some men. More than are posting on here. "
You have asked men to do this before meeting you?
You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you
Out of order imo |
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it?
Why on earth would a guy do that?
I’ve asked men to do it in the past when I know they come very quickly. Especially if they aren’t repeaters or you don’t have much time together. At one point I had a run of 3 meets that all finished within 30 seconds. So it is an issue for some men. More than are posting on here.
You have asked men to do this before meeting you?
You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you
Out of order imo"
Well they didn’t mind and the sex lasted longer than 5mins next time around.
Why is that out of line?
Why are YOU offended that I communicated with a lover something that I thought would make future meets more satisfying?? They were happy to get positive feed back. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it?
Why on earth would a guy do that?
I’ve asked men to do it in the past when I know they come very quickly. Especially if they aren’t repeaters or you don’t have much time together. At one point I had a run of 3 meets that all finished within 30 seconds. So it is an issue for some men. More than are posting on here.
You have asked men to do this before meeting you?
You should have just not have met them again if they didn't suit you
Out of order imo
Well they didn’t mind and the sex lasted longer than 5mins next time around.
Why is that out of line?
Why are YOU offended that I communicated with a lover something that I thought would make future meets more satisfying?? They were happy to get positive feed back. "
Few men would be happy to be told that.
Read the responses to your thread
It's not a thing men do,in general,so to be told to do it for reasons you said is totally out of order
You are telling a man to wank,if he wants to or not
You have no right to.
You can only tell him how you feel about his PE.
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BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem. |
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"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem. "
Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol
He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen |
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"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol
He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen "
Honestly I’m a bit horrified at the suggestion that any man would feel he HAS to do something a woman suggests. What happened to body autonomy? Women fought for it for years, bizarre that some don’t feel they have the right to say “no”. Sad really. |
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Yes, but it's more enjoyable if you think about the meet! And timing is everything.
"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem. "
I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me
So maybe it's a YOU problem
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"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me
So maybe it's a YOU problem
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How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
Maybe he’s has a gun with no bullets lol lol
He gets the blankety blank cheque book and pen "
That wouldn't even be funny if you knew what those phrases meant and used them in the proper context.
What does being sterile have to do with premature ejaculated??
I await your response |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me
So maybe it's a YOU problem
How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy? "
That's 1 possibility.. |
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"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
I've met a lot of single guys as part of a couple and 3 in a row of guys with PE seems like a lot to me
So maybe it's a YOU problem
How can premature ejaculation be a woman’s fault? Am I too sexy?
That's 1 possibility.."
Thanks but no. I’m not that vain. |
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Yes absolutely has to be done nice guys finish last and all that |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.
Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.
If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.
From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
where the wild roses grow |
"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem. "
I actually agree with you
I have cum quite soon at some meets and at others have been one of the I can go all night brigade.
I'd have no problem having a "tactical " wank if I thought the occasion required it.
Whats the big deal? |
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over a year ago
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Never did.....most people dnt know staying longer is all psychological thing...there is diet and different meditation(in yoga) which can help men stay longer....it always works for me.....again as i mentioned its psychological thing so some men believe if they do so they might stay longer...so it helps them coz they think like that way placebo effect you can say..... |
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By *usbyXXXMan
over a year ago
County Waterford |
"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
When i was in my 20s (oh i so wish now) it would be needes to prevent an early finish. Now in my 60s definitvely not an option. Can now last an hour or more if i have a days rest in betwéen bouts. Nowadays it is so so enjoyable. |
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"BHAHAHAH. I didn’t TELL them to do anything. I suggested it might make any subsequent meets more enjoyable and they concurred. Omg do you think the men I choose to fuck have no right to say no?? If they didn’t want to they could have said “um no”. But they didn’t. This is hilarious!!!
I think this is more of a YOU problem.
I actually agree with you
I have cum quite soon at some meets and at others have been one of the I can go all night brigade.
I'd have no problem having a "tactical " wank if I thought the occasion required it.
Whats the big deal? "
I’m don’t see the issue either. We’re all (cough) grown ups. If I’ve got all day, superb. But I’ve a family and a busy life so I’m not wasting a precious short meet on someone’s recovery.
Mean? Maybe.
Coercive? No. |
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"It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.
Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.
If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.
From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second. "
Jaffa. You speak the truth. I agree 100%. Really not sure why all the drama either. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"It amusing now many are getting so defensive about something as simple as a wank and a situation discussed between two adults.
Unless I’m in the mood to take some cumshot pics, I couldn’t give a rats arse how much of it there is. Load size really doesn’t matter in most scenarios.
If a tactical wank let’s a guy relax more, take his time, not be worried about popping off earlier than he wants, there’s absolutely no harm in it.
From my point of view, if time allows, I like to get the first orgasm for the guy done early and then have lots of fun until he’s ready for the second.
Jaffa. You speak the truth. I agree 100%. Really not sure why all the drama either. "
My God! Women who think like I do!
Fab truly is a wonderful place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Definitely not for me. It takes away from the craic I’d potentially have with the woman/women/couple. And it already takes me quite a while to cum so it would only be working against my own potential enjoyment by getting off just before it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting how many men say no yet I’m always hearing anecdotal stories abd I have experience of men who don’t last 3minutes.
Kinda wondering if maybe it should be recommended. "
Not a hope should it be recommended. What should be recommended is that guys who blow after a few minutes not be taking on 3somes |
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By *j1981Man
over a year ago
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Bit of honesty.... if know going to only be meeting for a short while....
Then deffo hav a'tactical' wank in the last cpl hours leading up to meet time.
Means can both enjoy our selves.... and not cum prematurely.
For the over night meets when more time to relax and enjoy and have several rounds of fun and keep cumming ....then wouldnt perhaps of played tactics before.
Come on lads.... dont be shy... |
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No pre-match nerves.
No tactical discussions.
No concern about shooting on sight.
No worrying about getting it in the box early.
Just play our own game and it will all fall into place.
Too many armchair pundits on here.
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By *rezMan
over a year ago
Mungret |
My self, never like to waste an ammo. Rather cum with a play partner then squeeze the poor chicken.
There is plenty of different ways, not to cum for men...plus...I always do my best...and make sure ladies come first. Just my humble opinion. |
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By *ac147Man
over a year ago
Belfast East |
It can be a bit of a double edged sword... I've done the old tactical fiddle before and had no response at all when the time for fun began  wee Percy didn't want to come out to play if you get my drift. Then there's also been a Random coffee meet of POF that turned into a full evening of passion and the wee man took it like a proper soldier..
I suppose nowadays with the help of certain pills and things there's a better chance of performing over and over so the pre-date fiddle is becoming a thing of the past..
Jeez I'm not exactly selling myself well here. Lol. |
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If the build up to ameet is countless flirty texts and suggestive pics and vids I'd be of the opinion it would be better all round to relieve some tension in advance.
That being said the opposite is also true just grabbing one another and fucking and both cumming together is pretty hot too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.
Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.
I also find communication is important. I'm far from a marathon man but I make that very clear to any potential meets and I tend to avoid people that look for certain types of meets or talk about the how long a guy can last in certain terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations? "
Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near |
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over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near"
Curtains all used up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near
Curtains all used up? "
They are a bit more like wooden shutters now tbh |
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over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near
Curtains all used up? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Invest in good lube and always have tissue or a towel near
Curtains all used up?
They are a bit more like wooden shutters now tbh"
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.
Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.
I also find communication is important. I'm far from a marathon man but I make that very clear to any potential meets and I tend to avoid people that look for certain types of meets or talk about the how long a guy can last in certain terms."
It sounds like you're traumatised...  |
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"This is working of the premise that the guy cumming is somehow the end of the meet, which isn't always the case.
Like everything its going to be down to personal preference.
I also find communication is important. I'm far from a marathon man but I make that very clear to any potential meets and I tend to avoid people that look for certain types of meets or talk about the how long a guy can last in certain terms.
It sounds like you're traumatised... "
Ya but people love damaged goods right? I'm like that mostly fresh fruit pot for a €1 on the reduced shelf |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations? "
Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list. |
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list. "
While you have the tactical wank? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do men routinely have a “tactical” wank before a private meet?
I know some do but is it routine or recommend or whatever?
What’s your take on it? "
Years ago I did, to make me last longer. Haven't needed to in recent years, lasting longer over 40.... |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"Yea, if I had a tactical wank I'd be more in the the mood to cancel the meet spend the evening on the couch watching Netflix.
Any recommendations?
Come over for a visit some evening and you can go through my list.
While you have the tactical wank? "
Hardly. I'd have you for that. |
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on the mere sight of a well endowed lady 
Have heard stories of some men who got very excited, aroused and came very quickly (while she was stripping off). So in some cases, a tactical wank might be a great idea 
But for myself and the vast majority of men, we don't 
