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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I'm curious as I think my spidey senses have been off lately, chatted to a " decent" guy or so I thought, he left for family reasons however has returned and is secretly a fwb couple on here with another fabber.

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents?

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By *elanie de la CoeurTV/TS over a year ago

Dublin

Usually they'll take the ball into the corner flag area, especially if they are winning.

Or bringing on subs in extra time is another tactic

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By *on Draper2.0Man over a year ago

Maynooth

"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents? "

That's the holy grail of this place. If you figure it out, tell me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose if it sounds too good to be true then it probably is. Been there myself a couple of times with persons promising meets etc.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman over a year ago

in the waves

Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all.

Fake pics

Verifications hidden

Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends

Leaving messages read but not responding for ages

Goes quiet after making plans

Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all.

Fake pics

Verifications hidden

Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends

Leaving messages read but not responding for ages

Goes quiet after making plans

Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it.

"
problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman over a year ago

in the waves

"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all.

Fake pics

Verifications hidden

Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends

Leaving messages read but not responding for ages

Goes quiet after making plans

Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it.

problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc

We all have the same issues, occasionally they slip through the radar. Some people are impeccable liars.

It's just annoying when you invest time in something and it's all been deceitful or they are just in it for the chase.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all.

Fake pics

Verifications hidden

Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends

Leaving messages read but not responding for ages

Goes quiet after making plans

Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it.

problem is when they send pics, text regularly, chat away, no problem sharing pics etc

We all have the same issues, occasionally they slip through the radar. Some people are impeccable liars.

It's just annoying when you invest time in something and it's all been deceitful or they are just in it for the chase. "

100%

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By *acd03Man over a year ago

Naughtyville

"Lots of things are red flags to me but it's impossible to know them all.

Fake pics

Verifications hidden

Only on at certain times of day or disappears on weekends

Leaving messages read but not responding for ages

Goes quiet after making plans

Goes quiet when you ask for a specific pic to verify who they are... I just usually get a feel for people even when texting and if my gut is saying something is off I will leave it.

on most of those Lula.

Your Spidey sense and indeed patience sure gets tested in this melting pot of timewasting fuckwits, albeit garnished with a fair few genuine folks thankfully

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By *ofusplusCouple over a year ago

Limerick

I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far.

Time wasters won't be long disappearing then

Sorry to hear it DD.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have yet to be led on a wild goose chase but not here that long. I'm just open and honest and if I don't get the same communication in return I don't bother. Be wary of anyone promising big things when you don't know them so well. Castles built on sand.

Only you can decide your due diligence criteria OP. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pay attention to details, liars will usually out themselves with inconsistencies.

Also, as suggested above, arrange a social meet fairly quickly.

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By *ayla and the AdmiralCouple over a year ago

monaghan

We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it.

I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of your shot gun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We haven't had too much experience getting as far as arranging meets etc but the best "timewaster" we have had was someone chat for ages, start taking about meeting, then they disappear, pop back up a few months later with a whole new profile but the same pics and admitted it was them when called out on it.

I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person."

If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone.

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By *ayla and the AdmiralCouple over a year ago

monaghan

I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person.

If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone. "

Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person.

If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone.

Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before."

The notes feature are great, you can make notes on a profile that only you see.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons'

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By *ed just RedWoman over a year ago

Dublin City

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By *organ DeanWoman over a year ago

Belfast

My timewaster spidey sense is rusty, been away from it too long. It took giving a person 3 chances for me to think wtf am I doing?!

I like the early social idea, I'm taking that from this post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' "

I have to agree with that, you can't know it was necessarily done in order to deceive per se, sometimes it's just less complicated for people to delete an account and start over. Remember things are rarely personal, we are all suiting ourselves here, unless the person stood us up for a meet, we wouldn't really care.

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By *ayla and the AdmiralCouple over a year ago

monaghan

I thought when you paid for a subscription you could see who you previously messaged, it doesnt seem to work for this person.

If the person on a whole new profile the messages from the previous profile will be gone.

Yea, I meant to add that they have messaged a few times from the new profile with opening type messages that you would send to someone you havent chatted with before.

The notes feature are great, you can make notes on a profile that only you see. "

I really need to utilise this feature more!

T x

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By *ed just RedWoman over a year ago

Dublin City

Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then.

I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty.

I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest.

A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man.

99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very difficult for a single guy on here. I'm genuine...polite and respectful but still finding it difficult. Alot of single guys just think this is a meet...pun intended...factory. please believe me when I say we not all the same.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far.

Time wasters won't be long disappearing then

Sorry to hear it DD."

I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick.

The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please let me know how

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By *on Draper2.0Man over a year ago

Maynooth

"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far.

Time wasters won't be long disappearing then

Sorry to hear it DD.

I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick.

The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site. "

I think your way is better. A genuine person will still be there after 20, 40, 60 messages. They will be willing to wait to meet you. If you're not in a hurry yourself, you'll see the wasters for what they are eventually, which is the most important time. I'd rather invest time in 2 people only to find that one is a faker or time waster, rather than to mistakenly dismiss both early on for fear that they might be.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents? "

Playing devils advocate if he has a couple's account even with a fwb then he isn't hiding anything really. He may have just needed time away to sort out what ever he needed to.Plenty do that on here .

As for spotting liars I don't know really just anything that someone says that isn't consistent with anything they have said before.

Timewasters I find look for pics etc and sex talk which is why I don't do it anymore on here with someone I haven't met they usually get bored when you don't and stop chatting.

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

I think if you have an inkling that someone is a fantasist even though the chats are going well, suggest a coffee early on.

If I have a good feeling about someone, I’m happy to chat for a good while before a coffee meet is arranged, particularly at the moment when I’m keeping my contacts low.

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By *on Draper2.0Man over a year ago

Maynooth

"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents?

As for spotting liars I don't know really just anything that someone says that isn't consistent with anything they have said before.

Timewasters I find look for pics etc and sex talk which is why I don't do it anymore on here with someone I haven't met they usually get bored when you don't and stop chatting. "

You're much more interesting if you can conduct a real conversation anyway.

I think...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents? "

I'm presuming I am the one you are speaking of considering I've got a few messages telling me you've started this thread and pretty much spreading the word through other means.

So let me clear up some of the stuff you're saying I am or have done.

Yes I left for a few reasons, family being one of them. I don't know you well enough to give you any further details than that.

A time waster I am not. I had every intention of meeting you when time allowed it. And I did say this to you several times. But while we chatted we never had made any definite arrangements to meet.

A liar? Seriously? I'd like know where that is coming from. And please feel free to answer in a public forum because I've nothing to hide.

A 'secret' couple?? And what if I was or am with someone or several people. Isn't that what fab is all about? Meeting people?

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

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By *issme39Woman over a year ago

kildare

"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then.

I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty.

I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest.

A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man.

99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses.

do you know how much I adore you girl!! you hit the nail on the head with all you said xxx

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By *issme39Woman over a year ago

kildare

here's the thing though, we are on a swing site but are we expecting people only to talk to us???

if I get rejected I'd rather chew my arm off than let him know im bothered!! NEXT is what il be saying , this is not aimed at you DD I'm just saying don't give them anything to hold over us, for every 1 man who doesn't want us then 10 will...

chin up gurl

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

Jaysus it’s been a while since we had some drama

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Ah no go on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Ah no go on

Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Ah no go on

Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it

LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS.

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By *aucymessCouple over a year ago

gorey

Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab.

They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section.

We would be willing pay extra for such an option.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh the drama

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Ah no go on

Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it

LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS."

He is quite the villain! Who would thunk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab.

They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section.

We would be willing pay extra for such an option."

But different strokes for different folks that's the joys of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons' "

100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A timewaster, a liar, a player etc in here

I know people play games, people say what they think you want to hear but I thought I had gotten pretty good at sussing out the twats

So any suggestions ladies and gents?

I'm presuming I am the one you are speaking of considering I've got a few messages telling me you've started this thread and pretty much spreading the word through other means.

So let me clear up some of the stuff you're saying I am or have done.

Yes I left for a few reasons, family being one of them. I don't know you well enough to give you any further details than that.

A time waster I am not. I had every intention of meeting you when time allowed it. And I did say this to you several times. But while we chatted we never had made any definite arrangements to meet.

A liar? Seriously? I'd like know where that is coming from. And please feel free to answer in a public forum because I've nothing to hide.

A 'secret' couple?? And what if I was or am with someone or several people. Isn't that what fab is all about? Meeting people?

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Spreading the word through other means not sure what that means, didn't call anyone a liar I asked how do people spot the liars, the players and time wasters, some was directed at the general population on here some wasn't. The way I see it be honest with your intentions life gets in the way , not going to say anymore as you have made your point clear. Best of luck on your journey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not to mention names but a very nice person has messaged me today to say that they will gladly meet me next week fingers crossed for a coffee and hopefully a verification. My point is that don’t tar everyone with the same brush. There are some decent people out there and i imagine they far outweigh the cnuts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons'

100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down"

With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down"

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By *ed just RedWoman over a year ago

Dublin City

"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab.

They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section.

We would be willing pay extra for such an option."

What constitutes an “elite member”?? Can you IMAGINE the egotistical meltdowns that would happen when people discover they aren’t “elite”.

And club organisers aren’t all fecking sweetness and light. One couple are known shit stirrers and are universally disliked, others are sweeties that don’t deserve to get dragged into fab dramas.

Nah. Wouldn’t happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Honestly I don’t trust anyone, Not men or women. Ok. Very VERY few then.

I find most womens photos are extremely flattering or flat out lies with filters. They frequently bitch about others and have no loyalty.

I find most men are spineless. I don’t find that many men lie, but most are painfully unable to be honest.

A lot of men are out to just get their hole - which is fine if they are honest - but most women are happy to lie and stab each other in the back to get and keep a man.

99% of the couples on here are rude and obnoxious, I’ve talked to maybe 2 couples that weren’t arrogant and up their own arses.

The ideal would be to find one but think the last while for me on here has shown its not working put for me.

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

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By *3nsesMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I dunno but maybe suggest coffee pretty early in the conversation, assuming all looks good so far.

Time wasters won't be long disappearing then

Sorry to hear it DD.

I usually won't do a coffee meet early on when chatting I prefer to get to know people it doesn't mean I'm a timewaster and I wouldn't presuame aomeoe else is either if they didn't meet quick.

The one time I met someone fast off here was the absolute worst meet I've ever had and he scared me so much I almost left the site.

I'm curious, what do you mean when you say genuine person? I can't ever imagine I'd still be chatting to someone for 40 or 60 messages having not had asked for a social or gotten clarity on where it's going.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros "

Can I have one in each size please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm sure I'll be put on the naughty step now but at least I piqued a few conversations s gotta love the talking vines of fab

But thanks for all the suggestions and advice will be taking on board.

Now Red we need a coffee and chat soon so I can figure out how to get a fwb xx

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By *antra MassageMan over a year ago

Midlands

There's plenty I can say here too but I have the decency and respect for yourself and myself not to air it on a public forum.

Ah no go on

Step away from the stirring pot and walk away slowly or the teddy bear gets it

LOOK! NOW HE IS KILLING TEDDY BEARS."

That's not as bad as Killing Kittens.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab.

They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section.

We would be willing pay extra for such an option."

It's fairly obvious this option already exists.

Funny handshakes are included as an optional extra.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would it be easier if there was an elite section of fab where fabswingers.com and club owners collaborated to approve whom is allowed access to the elite section of fab.

They could also review members who have been flagged by other elite members to see if there is a case if they need be removed from the elite section.

We would be willing pay extra for such an option."

I burst out laughing at this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons'

100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down

With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down" "

Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons'

100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down

With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down"

Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice"

But the specific details in your OP made no mention of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This scenario wouldnt be a redflag for me tbh, life and relationships are complicated esp on here where there are multiple chats going on, connections being made etc...

Probably he took a break to figure out which path to go down. I suppose thats more accurately personal reasons rather than 'family reasons'

100% get every one has a life outside fab just hate been let down

With all due respect, unless there is a definite meet arrangement with someone that they haven't turned up to, you haven't been "let down"

Have been quite a few times on here. That's why I had asked for advice

But the specific details in your OP made no mention of a meet. "

No I didn't, but I also don't tell people who I'm chatting to on here either however everyone seems to know who I was talking about.

Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult

Thanks again for the suggestions,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Can I have one in each size please "

You greedy thing

Share please

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By *ed just RedWoman over a year ago

Dublin City

Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult

Thanks again for the suggestions, "

I did. Think cutting off your nose to spite your face is going to a good option here. You can’t be upset when ask for advice and then reject it all when you don’t like it.

I mean, you can, but it won’t get you very far.

Good luck tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lesson learned and think it is time to pull the plug completely on meeting anyone. Crikey who would thinking finding someone for a bit of fun and a ride every now and than be so difficult

Thanks again for the suggestions,

I did. Think cutting off your nose to spite your face is going to a good option here. You can’t be upset when ask for advice and then reject it all when you don’t like it.

I mean, you can, but it won’t get you very far.

Good luck tho. "

Ah no any advice I get will take it on board, not rejecting any any advice, not sure where I'm rejecting it or getting upset. Changed my profile as I'm obviously doing something wrong and goi g to just enjoy the chats and forums for now.

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By *ub23Man over a year ago

wandering

Haven't got to the meet arranging messages enough times for someone to think I'm not genuine haha

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By *ayla and the AdmiralCouple over a year ago

monaghan

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros "

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x"

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock"

Search cock in a box on YouTube

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By *OCONO5Couple over a year ago

Sensual Center

A social drink or walk ...is a quick way to find out

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By *ayla and the AdmiralCouple over a year ago

monaghan

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

Tx"

Fair point

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By *s LollyWoman over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

Tx"

Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary"

Urban dictionary ruined sci-fi TV for me after I searched docking

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By *eralt80Man over a year ago

cork

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

Tx"

I’m the same, I was once curious about a word used on the forums so I googled it and it cured my curiosity for ever. Some things can’t be unlearned

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By *affa31Woman over a year ago

Galway

I can’t be the only one who revels in finding these words and being the one to make others google them

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By *organ DeanWoman over a year ago

Belfast

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x

I betcha a regular popcorn its cock

Search cock in a box on YouTube

I will never youtube or google anything i see suggested on Fab anymore.

I have googled terms mentioned on here for their definitions and the answers had me rocking in a corner!

Haha the discovery of "Urban Dictionary"

Urban dictionary ruined sci-fi TV for me after I searched docking

Searched my name on UD & thought it would be funny to see if my brothers nickname for me was on it - Glackers - it was not funny at all

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Dare I ask for the special mystery popcorn please?

T x"

You can x

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By *asual777Man over a year ago

i travel all over

"Salted popcorn is 4 euros

Sweet 4.50

Special mystery popcorn 5 euros

Can I have one in each size please "

Absolutely