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F$ck that for a game of soldiers!!
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Felt like saying it!!! Feel like ranting.
My cancer has come back, this time in my bones. Had BC in late 2017. The top of my right femur was so badly infected with cancer, I needed a full hip replacement. Cancer is confined to my pelvis. Thank fook. Hormone therapy for the cancer is next. Possibley radiation too as I have a spot on my left hip too.
Discovered after an xray after I fell at a roller skating lesson over a month ago.
Then my narcisstic ex has our 11 year old son & is playing games & throwing false accussations around bout MrD. Its a complete sh!tshow & my ex wont let me see our son. All kicked off the day I came out of hosp.
So f$ck all that for a game of soldiers!!!!! 
Its all I can muster up....
MsD |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
So sorry to hear what an awful time you are having. I don't think words can convey how I feel reading this. But you are a fighter and have already shown that by beating this once and I really hope you will again.Keep on fighting and try not to let all the personal stuff happening get you down even tho I know it is hard. And there is no harm in ranting I think anyone in your position would x |
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Doesnt your ex sound like a right bundle of joy  then to drag a child into an adult argument is beyond contemplable and sadly all too familiar. Im sorry that you have found yourself in this situation and hopefully the solicitor can sort out things as regards getting your son back and that treatment works for you. chin up and head high |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like above, sorry to hear that after you already successfully battling C previously.
Couple of thoughts:
1. Concentrate on what is important right now, your relationship with your son and your physical and mental health
2. You have already kicked C's ass before which shows you are a fighter and no doubt you will do it again 
3. Your ex sounds like a complete dickhead and not worth wasting any further energy on.. |
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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago
Around and about |
Im sorry your experiencing such a hard,sad and frightening time of it right now.
We may be a bunch of strangers with a shared interest who disagree a lot but I think everyone would send you nothing but positive vibes. Stay classy  |
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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago
NaughtyVille *×* Laois |
"He doesnt know about the cancer. Thinks I did the damage by falling only. He is a control freak, always wanting to know what is going on in my life. "
Terrible news to get but life keeps throwing us all hurdles to leap.
Try keep that spring in ur step.
As for ur ex, perhaps his outlook might change if he knew the full story.
Hard enough to battle illness without the past relationship stress.
Hoping u find a way through xx
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By *anabecdTV/TS
over a year ago
Limerick/ tipp |
So so sorry to see to hear that.
I can't imagine what is going through you head at this time.
But as for your ex, in my experience the best thing to do is to never rise to the constant accusations and threats.
Play there game directly back at them, I know exactly the feeling with an ex when they're is a child involved.
As for the other issue I know you will come out of it fighting. You've done it once before just never let your mind give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So sorry to hear that bad news. Stay positive and never stop telling your son how much you love him, down the road when it matters he will remember it and stand by you. Wishing you all the best in your recovery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You rant away!!
Much better to communicate how you're feeling and it's a sign you're up for the fight you now have.
Try to Keep positive.
Your son will know how much you love him...take every opportunity to show him and tell him.
Be strong x
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"Felt like saying it!!! Feel like ranting.
My cancer has come back, this time in my bones. Had BC in late 2017. The top of my right femur was so badly infected with cancer, I needed a full hip replacement. Cancer is confined to my pelvis. Thank fook. Hormone therapy for the cancer is next. Possibley radiation too as I have a spot on my left hip too.
Discovered after an xray after I fell at a roller skating lesson over a month ago.
Then my narcisstic ex has our 11 year old son & is playing games & throwing false accussations around bout MrD. Its a complete sh!tshow & my ex wont let me see our son. All kicked off the day I came out of hosp.
So f$ck all that for a game of soldiers!!!!!
Its all I can muster up....
MsD"
Wishing you good health and sending hugs x
As for ex get a production order from the judge and he will have t
o give you your son back karma will sort him x
Op stay strong try keep stress at bay easier said than done wishing you all the best x |
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