Hey, thinking about going to Attic tomorrow. First time visiting a club and would be going alone. Has anyone got any idea what to expect or is it going to be loads of guys sat by themselves wanking? Trying to get out of my comfort zone and would appreciate all info and advice!
Also if anyone is thinking of going tomorrow that would be awesome! |
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"Hey, thinking about going to Attic tomorrow. First time visiting a club and would be going alone. Has anyone got any idea what to expect or is it going to be loads of guys sat by themselves wanking? Trying to get out of my comfort zone and would appreciate all info and advice!
Also if anyone is thinking of going tomorrow that would be awesome! "
Understand that last Tuesday was well attended and a good day by all accounts.
You'll fine fine, nothing to be nervous of and will be looked after by the staff |
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"Hey, thinking about going to Attic tomorrow. First time visiting a club and would be going alone. Has anyone got any idea what to expect or is it going to be loads of guys sat by themselves wanking? Trying to get out of my comfort zone and would appreciate all info and advice!
Also if anyone is thinking of going tomorrow that would be awesome!
Understand that last Tuesday was well attended and a good day by all accounts.
You'll fine fine, nothing to be nervous of and will be looked after by the staff"
Are there ever days it's just men in the cinema? I think that's what I'm curious about. |
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over a year ago
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I have been a few times and its been a great experience. Every time is different in who attends and it would be hard to predict who would go.
Honestly I wouldn’t be nervous (easy for me to say) but the people and staff are so lovely and will help to put you at ease
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"I have been a few times and its been a great experience. Every time is different in who attends and it would be hard to predict who would go.
Honestly I wouldn’t be nervous (easy for me to say) but the people and staff are so lovely and will help to put you at ease
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Thanks mate. What's the etiquette or what goes on etc? Was hoping to at least see a couple having some fun. Do I walk around and chat or just go on quietly and sit down with a bunch of blokes and hope someone walks in? With the doors not being lockable do I not open them etc? Complete newbie to clubs. |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
"I have been a few times and its been a great experience. Every time is different in who attends and it would be hard to predict who would go.
Honestly I wouldn’t be nervous (easy for me to say) but the people and staff are so lovely and will help to put you at ease
Thanks mate. What's the etiquette or what goes on etc? Was hoping to at least see a couple having some fun. Do I walk around and chat or just go on quietly and sit down with a bunch of blokes and hope someone walks in? With the doors not being lockable do I not open them etc? Complete newbie to clubs. "
I honestly cant tell you what will or will not happen as every time is different and different people go at different times
Normally its quite in the room like any other cinema would be.
If your outside of the cinema room definitely talk to people its part of the experience, the social element.
When ive been there ive never been upstairs to the rooms as its been quite quiet
Remember just because people are there doesn’t mean they will want to play with you and respect people’s boundaries ect. |
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Doors are locked open so no doors to open, always try and talk and be sociable, ask before getting close or touching (despite what others may or may not do).
Yes there are occasional days no females attends, but when you go to the vanilla cinema not every ilm you see is going to win the Oscar.
And guarantees that people will play (with you) even if they are there. |
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"Doors are locked open so no doors to open, always try and talk and be sociable, ask before getting close or touching (despite what others may or may not do).
Yes there are occasional days no females attends, but when you go to the vanilla cinema not every ilm you see is going to win the Oscar.
And guarantees that people will play (with you) even if they are there."
Thanks, that's probably what I needed to hear. I was just wanting to watch but if there's a chance there won't be a single woman or couple turn up all day then that's probably made my mine of up for another whether to go or not. |
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It’s like fishing… you can sit there and nothing biting, another day might be busy. As others have said even if there are couples attending there is no guarantee they will want you watching or playing..
I go pretty regularly - never have any expectations and happily chat to staff and other customers. It’s really friendly and a good way to see if the club scene is for you.. |
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Just go with no expectations then you won’t be disappointed if nothing happens, whatever day you go you will be made very welcome all the staff are exceptionally friendly have a cup of tea or coffee (prices are reasonable) have a chat Make friends socialise etc |
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